QUOTE(Avangelice @ Jun 12 2021, 11:56 AM)
QUOTE(9m2w @ Jun 12 2021, 12:44 PM)
Sigh
You got to have a heart to hear talk. What you make is beside the point, and from what you say you're more than pulling your weight in the family. I fear you give in its never gonna be enough. Elephant in the room is frankly her attitude . Shes not acting like an adult and a wife and mother
Good luck 🤞
Truthfully I emphatise with TS. In terms of monetary, you did more than enough. But in frank I believe you made a mistake when you payed off one of her CC debt. That opens up a new can of worms. Like you said, the actual issue is not about giving the actually money but where it leads to, not to mention her lack of contribution towards the marriage in terms of chores, money and sexual.You got to have a heart to hear talk. What you make is beside the point, and from what you say you're more than pulling your weight in the family. I fear you give in its never gonna be enough. Elephant in the room is frankly her attitude . Shes not acting like an adult and a wife and mother
Good luck 🤞
I believe, its possible that's she's easily affected by her environment; friends, family, internet etc etc. Easily swayed by her friends. Comparing friends receiving this and that are signs of trouble. With my past relationships, these type of women are quite hard to coerce. The only method that work is using her own ways against her; her friends husbands give them money but they also do chores, spends on household groceries etc, etc.
Quite frightening when I read that you're also the one to cook. Hiring a nanny is a solution but a stop-gap one. Main issue is Trust & Responsibility.
Also my ex that I talked about in the end cheated, citing that whatever I was giving her wasn't enough. Hopefully it won't happen to you.
QUOTE(xPrototype @ Jun 12 2021, 01:10 PM)
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I've seen far too many similar scenarios like TS, and I can tell you it doesn't end well...either you start feeling contempt, your wife start to stonewall, criticism or defensiveness.. the 4 horsemen of divorce..
TS already said she maxed out her CC again even after he payed it off prior. Doesn't contribute much to family expenses.
QUOTE(biggie @ Jun 12 2021, 07:54 PM)
Wifey got 6k per month from me and no questions asked. Also a cc for her to use. As she not working I pay for everything.
With everything need it do some financial juggling from time to time.
But a happy home is something that I love to get back to everyday.
OK laa like that since shes not working. Taking care of you, the kids & home.With everything need it do some financial juggling from time to time.
But a happy home is something that I love to get back to everyday.
But the key difference is she knows what to spend on like blanket84's waifu
Good luck TS, like Oklahoma has said, its a well written script that has ending known by the looks of it. Also ignore shiteheads like Solar Calendar.
Jun 12 2021, 08:47 PM

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