If your cont to fight like this, separation is coming soon.

Because she see capability in you !

Maybe she cannot 'see' the investment part you are doing. The money with her is more secured.

Ask her why she need so much ? Can bincang what.

Her upbringing issue, .....similar like my spouse. Luckily she dont demand but pretend nothing happen at counter ! So I avoid going shopping ... lol

This post has been edited by mini orchard: Jun 12 2021, 11:33 AM

Honestly speaking, your wife is vulnerable to other men who can splurge money.

I am not trying to frighten you but you need to do something and not brushed it aside.

Not refering to blackmail thou but one who 'enjoys' sitting in the middle of the fence.

Every family is different as we are dealing with individual human behaviours and NOT problem

If behaviour dont change, problem dont get solved.

A misunderstanding between a couple about money now becomes mud-slinging in this thread.

How some can just judge from a one sided post.

This post has been edited by mini orchard: Jun 12 2021, 08:18 PM

Since you have not lost your mind, you have better solution ?

This post has been edited by mini orchard: Jun 12 2021, 09:31 PM

Your POV is as good only 50%. There is always the other side of a coin.

You talk macam you know the whole story.

Is not wrong to voice out frustration in a forum. That is as far it goes only.

Dont have to look over the horizon. Just read in the media about our local celebrities and many remarried few times like 'hot' cakes to politicians, lower royal standings etc.

And many are not financially well off but just portraying a 'rich' social appearance.

Of course, one need a 'nice' body and a pretty face to attract men who can afford to splurge money too.

Dont underestimate the 'power' of a divorcee including those with kids. Once 'eaten' you may not want to let go even for a non celebrity status !

If one marries a wife who finds difficulty to remarry after being ditched by the husband, then he has poor taste !

If women dont have financial capability, one must have 'physical' assets.

This post has been edited by mini orchard: Jun 13 2021, 07:05 AM

Forumers are more excited on the issues than TS.

Is easy to give advise.

Orthopedic in private earns 3 times or more in a month unless in govt

Wives whose husbands earned good income would want to secured their position b4 the money is splurge on another woman.

Husband is MD of public listed co, 1st wife normally a director position.

Generally every family will have misunderstanding over money.

Is better to quarrel over something one has than none.

Money can solve problem at that point of time. If one has no money, no problems can be solved but only quarrels.

Tak kan the wife will tell the husband on the face that he will stray and need money to secured her financial position. Its just giving hint to the husband that he cannot be trusted and I see no reason to cont to sleep on the same bed if he strayed.

Edit ...

My spouse rich uncle wanted to buy a car for the clan association's secretary to fetch him for meetings and hell broke lose for few months !

This post has been edited by mini orchard: Jun 14 2021, 10:08 AM

I havent been following every page so I could have missed out.

Can TS share some good points about your wife or someone linked me to the page/post ?

Let us hear something positive about her other than some forumers may say in bed.

Hearing directly from the horse mouth is better than quoting.

Before passing a verdict, a judge will wants to hear from the other side unless the 'victim' choose not to give testimony.

All his previous is still 50% story niah.

I did ask ts to share what are the positives his wife have.

This post has been edited by mini orchard: Jun 14 2021, 01:11 PM