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 Need a little marriage advice, Wife is asking for monthly allowance

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ketnave
post Jun 12 2021, 12:42 PM

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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Jun 12 2021, 12:34 PM)
[12/06, 11:59] Other ppl don't even need to hv this kinda discussion
[12/06, 11:59]  The husband just give
[12/06, 12:00]  Cos it just be a biz transaction
[12/06, 12:00] No different from a hooker and her client

Hers
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What is the notion of marriage to her ? Is it just partnership ?

These seems to be a bit odd, what's the context here ?

[12/06, 12:00] Cos it just be a biz transaction
[12/06, 12:00] No different from a hooker and her client
ketnave
post Jun 12 2021, 12:44 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Jun 12 2021, 12:31 PM)
this is the problem of modern men
they forgot to put their women in their place.
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wtf ?!
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post Jun 12 2021, 12:47 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Jun 12 2021, 12:45 PM)
why are you surprised.
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hey, whatever that floats your boat man ! laugh.gif
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post Jun 12 2021, 01:20 PM

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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Jun 12 2021, 12:45 PM)
I opened up to discussion on how much she should think I should give her per month after she exploded during our argument about me not giving her any money.

Her thinking is that discussing about it is beneath her. I shouldn't be talking just give.

So my understanding is I give 500 is good? Since don't need to discuss right?
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If you are paying for all the household expenses and she does not need to contribute, yet she is asking for "monthly allowances" ... that could be a bit too much, I guess. However, no one really know what kinda lifestyle you two are living and all, so we can't really say much right ?

How long have you been married now ?

Maybe you can give this some thought, instead of giving her the 5k per month, setup a joint investment account ? You fund it with say 5k (or whatever amount you are comfortable with) , then spend the interest or profit ?

If she just want 5k allowance and blow it all on herself ... that's a no for me

QUOTE(Avangelice @ Jun 12 2021, 12:46 PM)
Trying to right now. She's not giving in discussing with me. Now she shut down texting me
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Stop and pick it up at a later time and give each other some time ba.
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post Jun 12 2021, 01:28 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Jun 12 2021, 01:19 PM)
earn rm360k per year, still need to open thread?
already so high value liao still need to kowtow to a woman
this is so hilarous lah bang
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not kowtow ma ... find middle ground ...
sometime woman-on-top also ok de ma ...
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