too late buddy. you've already spoiled her. not to talk about money, but after work you still have to cook wash plates and do laundry?! dam thats too over.

for me i do cook but my wife is automatic enough to know that if i cook. she'll do the dishes and vice versa, basic mutual understanding which i hope you'll be able to to discuss.

i dont bring home as much as you but my wife does ask for a sub-card which i gave her willingly as i know what she buys will be for our newborn or for household usage.

other than that, similarly i pay for everything at home, the car loans, the house and i do the dinner as well. but most important is that she acknowlege im doing all these which aint easy.

of course its doable and i respect you for being able to handle it. However we're discussing the fact that he's career is very intensive and in the same time not being acknowledged for his effort, yet getting compared to "other friend's husband", which result in unfairness by TS
After spending the whole day in his clinic with his son and nanny, reaching home and to cook, dishes and laundry.

This post has been edited by infiniti123: Jun 12 2021, 05:06 PM

EDIT: double post

This post has been edited by infiniti123: Jun 12 2021, 05:05 PM