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 Need a little marriage advice, Wife is asking for monthly allowance

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imadeyoureadthis1
post Jun 12 2021, 04:30 PM

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TS, you people arguing over texts or face to face? Physical argument is expressional, you can get a lot of emotion cues from just listening seeing and sensing the vibes coming from her. All of this cannot be done over cold hard texting which often times are misrepresented, misinterpreted and misunderstood.

An overview of your relationship is that you are the one that is always giving and she is the one who is constantly receiving.
There is almost no exchange of roles between giver and receiver. This relationship is going to strain until either one blurted out a divorce in a heated argument.

You are marrying a princess (aka woman-child) not a normal adult. Aren't you exhausting taking care of your children as well as your "wife". This won't end well unless she repents.

She has shit personalities. Before marriage, did you move in with her to discover her personalities at home? If that is not the case, then this is the reason why you discovered her personalities this late.


As a final note, marriage is about growing together in materials AND in spiritual. If you sense that this marriage is not gonna give you this basic things it is time to get a divorce.

This post has been edited by imadeyoureadthis1: Jun 12 2021, 05:13 PM
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post Jun 12 2021, 05:09 PM

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QUOTE(infiniti123 @ Jun 12 2021, 05:03 PM)
of course its doable. we're discussing the fact that he's career is very intensive and in the same time not being acknowledged for his effort,
After spending the whole day in his clinic with his son and nanny, reaching home and to cook, dishes and laundry.
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That woman is a real savage. She is treating her husband like a servant. I am sure the man will come to a breaking point and ask for a divorce. Unappreciative vile woman.
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post Jun 12 2021, 08:22 PM

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QUOTE(Solar Calendar @ Jun 12 2021, 07:23 PM)
Also, if you are born a male, you are already oppressing woman. You have more chance to get a job than another woman, you have more chance to get your parents love, you eat more food, you are smarter, even sex position you are on top of her. That is why we must give them much more power to compensate for an inherent disadvantage.
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When you indulge in feminism did you think of why female gender is the one being "oppressed"? Women evolved into this role begin as far back since the first emergence of hunters-gatherers societies. It has reason for human survival and will still applicable in today's civilisation. Just imagine if our society is collapsing today, who is going to war? Who is going to bear our future childs? If women going to war they will be raped till dead if they fall in the hands of enemies. I bet those so-called feminists will be just hiding behind closets when difficult times come.

The role women occupy today has a reason for human survival albeit the role is currently laying dormant. They are obviously not "oppressed" in first world countries and many other developing nations. Feminism is destructive to human survival. If feminism argues for equality and equity, why use the word "feminism" to denote female exclusive philosophy? Why can't it come under the umbrella terms of equality and equity? Feminism is dividing men and women and you are taking pride in doing this. Do you have any shame? You misanthropist.

Please don't indulge feminism in isolation. Get a balance diet of formal science, social science and life science. You statements seem as though advocating for feminism but in actuality they are poorly disguised misandry.

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post Jun 13 2021, 08:48 PM

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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Jun 13 2021, 12:13 PM)
I think this is a little extreme no? Do remember I have a 5 month old son who needs his mom.

Anyways I feel better getting feedback from everyone here

I won't give in that's for sure. Maybe give 1k or something that's fine
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This is TS last reply.

Can you guys stop giving unsolicited advices? TS got what he wanted and has thanked you all. So stop prolonging this discussion. 20+ pages of discussion who has got time to read all that? Further, those who reply don't reply with TS's full story in mind and just making uneducated assumptions which is downright disrespectful to him. That is also not to mention that some just creating issues to spark secondary discussion unrelated to TS's objectives.

If there is any unresolved issue, I am sure he will open another serious thread.

Stop looking for TS's attention. You all are not gonna get it. Your stranger advices only worth SALT to him. Get a life.

This post has been edited by imadeyoureadthis1: Jun 13 2021, 08:52 PM

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