And what does It leave me? I cook everyday after coming from work. I do my laundry. I wash the plates. I hired a nanny for my son & is with me at my clinic everyday.

So how is it that she makes me feel like I'm not doing enough?

what's the reason that made you decided she's the 1 you want innitially? because based on your post and replies, I do see the bad signs of these coming up and incompatible with you?

or because she's younger and good-looking that's why you fall for her? or is it some kind of flash marriage like together a few months or 1 year then get married without really understand each other?

sure you can give her $$, but i don't think that solve the real problem as in both thinkings of the current & future mindset and planning all different? so that's why i am asking why you decided to married her

after work you still have to cook wash plates and do laundry?!

Who does the food shopping?