happen to me once, but TS make much more than me.
I spend mostly for the household expenses, she reluctant to spend extra.
I did exploded before, jot down all my expenses and her uxpenses, and she only spend 10% or less of total whole family expenses.
This happen, when we are overly generous all the time, pay all the bills for whatever occasion, and she already get used to this kind of situation.
After that, I told her that she can buy/spend on whatever she want with her own money. She also can request from me, but I will not pay for everything anymore.
If you happen to restart any business/career, try not to expose your real income, seriously
If you are making 30k, then say 20k only.
Your wife logic is somehow a common women logic, her money is belong to her only, but your money is her money as well.

This post has been edited by forrest: Jun 12 2021, 03:39 PM