Jun 12 2021, 11:27 AM
QUOTE(Avangelice @ Jun 12 2021, 11:12 AM)
Hello everyone,
Just a gist of it, I am paying for the house loan, the utilities & groceries (milk & diaper for my baby) and my bring home pay is around 30k per month & the Mrs is bringing home around 5k a month.
We had a fight this month and she exploded saying she doesn't get any money from me & her colleagues husbands all "put money in their purses when they see its empty".
I am reluctant to give because majority of the money I make goes to my son's education via investments & I do not expect her to chip in at all for the maintainance of the family well being.
Am I the asshole?
You already had your answer in mind from the way you posted your topic. I personally feel that if you are not willing and do not trust your wife that you can give her your full RM30k per month every month, and then you gives you back whatever you think you deserve (she literally becomes the finance minister of the house), then I don't think both of you trust each otherJust a gist of it, I am paying for the house loan, the utilities & groceries (milk & diaper for my baby) and my bring home pay is around 30k per month & the Mrs is bringing home around 5k a month.
We had a fight this month and she exploded saying she doesn't get any money from me & her colleagues husbands all "put money in their purses when they see its empty".
I am reluctant to give because majority of the money I make goes to my son's education via investments & I do not expect her to chip in at all for the maintainance of the family well being.
Am I the asshole?
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