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 Need a little marriage advice, Wife is asking for monthly allowance

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dickybird
post Jun 12 2021, 02:06 PM

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Money is power!
If she isn't contributing to anything and just wants to spend your money and not even be nice to you.
Sorry to say, you're just a meal ticket.
If you're happy being the sole breadwinner where your money is her money, then that's OK.
If you're prudent, you might give a stipend to her but make her contribute to a joint fund for household expenses.
I dunno what you negotiated with her about the financial responsibilities, now might be difficult to review that.
If she is burning through her pay, and expecting you to top up her purse, if she is nice about it and not screaming for it. Give lo.
But make sure you set hard limits, if not soon she will want more and you will get no peace of mind until he demands are met.
You think properly la.
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post Jun 12 2021, 03:56 PM

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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Jun 12 2021, 02:21 PM)
And what does It leave me? I cook everyday after coming from work. I do my laundry. I wash the plates. I hired a nanny for my son & is with me at my clinic everyday.

So how is it that she makes me feel like I'm not doing enough?
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This is already a bad sign.
Experienced it myself, I hold up the household, exwife worked and agreed to foot for certain bills end up didn't pay so I had to pay.
Early on, she dissed me by asking why I have no money when I paid for everything.
She made her own money, when she hit her target Incentive she would spend on herself mostly. Holidays she went with her bff, if I wanted to come along she'd loan the money. Wtf?!
Last last she asked for a divorce, said she wanted her freedom, dunno what freedom she didn't get when she made her own money and spent it on herself.
Anyways, years later I'm free and happy with my kids and she still looks sour and unhappy.
Divorce isn't always a tragedy, sometimes it's a blessing in disguise.

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post Jun 12 2021, 03:58 PM

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QUOTE(kslee79 @ Jun 12 2021, 03:53 PM)
A lot of people say money cannot buy happiness. I beg to differ. Crying in a Mercedes is a hell lot better than crying on a bicycle...
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Beg to differ, nobody can see you cry on a bike because you're climbing.
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post Jun 14 2021, 02:13 PM

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Lol
Mega epic askhole!
TS rasa lah
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post Jun 14 2021, 02:15 PM

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QUOTE(JimbeamofNRT @ Jun 14 2021, 01:55 PM)
if from bank/finance can check ccris one lah

but if from ah long then how?
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Her hutang her problem
As long as he no sign guarantees, he's Scot free
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post Jun 14 2021, 03:17 PM

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QUOTE(JimbeamofNRT @ Jun 14 2021, 02:19 PM)
seriously, is this your first time in MY/SG?

https://www.sinarharian.com.my/article/7860...imbah-cat-merah

"Saya terkejut apabila melihat ada kesan cat merah di bahagian pagar dan juga kereta milik saya.

"Terdapat sepucuk surat yang ditampal di pintu pagar yang ditulis 'hutang wang dibayar wang, penipu' dan tertera nama anak lelaki saya minta menghubunginya segera," katanya.
Artikel Penuh : https://www.sinarharian.com.my/article/7860...imbah-cat-merah
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https://www.sinarharian.com.my/article/1339...kan-mahu-tolong

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Tak tahan diugut, ibu tunggal pindah rumah

Seorang ibu tunggal terpaksa berhadapan dengan pelbagai ancaman dan ugutan daripada ah long kerana tindakan tidak bertanggungjawab anak lelakinya.

Wanita yang dikenali sebagai Dewi, 60, mendakwa sekumpulan lelaki yang dipercayai ah long pernah muncul di hadapan rumah dan mendesak dia menjelaskan hutang anak lelakinya.

“Saya tidak tahu anak saya yang bekerja di Singapura telah pinjam RM19,000 daripada ah long.
Artikel Penuh : https://www.sinarharian.com.my/article/1339...kan-mahu-tolong
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https://www.kosmo.com.my/2021/04/08/pekerja...-merah-dicekup/
Ketua Polis Daerah Seberang Perai Utara, Asisten Komisioner Noorzainy Mohd. Noor berkata, seorang wanita mendakwa melihat seluruh dinding rumahnya disimbah cat merah pada pukul 8.30 pagi.

“Terdapat satu nota kecil tertera nama seorang perempuan bersama satu pesanan yang ditinggalkan, biarpun pengadu mendakwa tidak pernah meminjam wang.

“Nota itu tertera kata-kata, ‘utang (hutang) wang bayar wang ini peringatan pertama WhatsApp ke satu nombor telefon’,” katanya kepada pemberita hari ini.

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Lol
30k monthly celery, he cannot find another place to live in double quick time?
dickybird
post Jun 14 2021, 03:22 PM

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QUOTE(JimbeamofNRT @ Jun 14 2021, 03:21 PM)
ah long will find you where ever you are

even at the office
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Well, good luck to him then.
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