I agree with that. Not everything is black and white.

But, I have been through and done what i suggested. In my case it was b & w.

Princess thought she owns the world, at that time my career was going up rapidly, i was naive and the "too nice guy".

She was milking me, we had many fights, one day i had enough and threw her out of the condo, called her parents to pick her up. 2 days no next, no calls. Then i showed up at their house and gave them the brutal truth how her daughter behaves: wakes up at 3-5pm, demands food, no house work, lazy, procrastinates, empty promise to look for a job, never takes anything seriously... the list could go on.

They were all crying and her dad had that utter disappointment on his face. I only felt sorry for him.

Yes, you should give. It's YOUR WIFE FFS, not your sister in law or friend. What's the downside? dont be an asshole husband la

u never take /k seriously lol thats why they didnt knew TS backstory then came out with that fucking retard logic

can see few of replies here trying to make TS life even worst

I think you need to sit down with your wife and put aside all the ego to discuss. I think for her to ask for 5k, she didnt take into consideration that your pay is also used for savings for the kids. Maybe working out the figure and showing her would be clearer to her.

Tbh, the amount women spend for maintenance for physical outlook can be very costly. If your wife also goes for aesthetic clinic, then lagi gg. 5k not enough for her seriously and if she is into branded things... lol. So I think you need to understand her spending and see where she can just cut some unnecessary spending. I think if I'm you, I would propose 2-3k first and see how she spend. If she is not simply spending then can give her more after that. And on those important dates (I.e anniversary, bday), splurge on her a lil, buy her smth she has been eyeing on it, or take her out on a good meal so she feel appreciated.

If majority of your money you have already cater a huge portion into financial planning for your kids, then I think you need to enlighten her. That's why other husband can give but you cannot, cause your planning is long term. Not short term. Now your kid may not need this money, when they need who pay? From her 5k meh? She need to see the big picture since you are paying for all the family expenses.

If that's your logic, then maybe just divorce is better solution ? since she's an entitled brat kan ? no need waste money. no need waste time bro.

whether you give rm100 or rm1000, you are giving in... from there it'll be a slippery slope.

Before giving your wife money, she first need to understand
- just because you're a man, means need to give money to wife?
- just because you earn 30k, so means need to give?
and so on, it's not the sum that matters, it's the principle. If you blur that line, eventually you will lose yourself

If she earn 5k and don't need to pay for home and kid expenses and still can't sustain herself, then she should first look in the mirror and fix herself before making any demands.

Even the credit card, she wont care much racking up the debt since she knows at the end someone will step in to clear it, when someone live with no consequences, their life will be reckless

https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3760998

they start dating since 2014 if I count correctly.

well, he saw the red flags but ignored it... furthermore it seems like her modus operandi to refused having a civil discourse.

all the best TS.