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 Need a little marriage advice, Wife is asking for monthly allowance

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post Jun 13 2021, 01:40 PM

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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Jun 12 2021, 11:12 AM)
Hello everyone,

Just a gist of it, I am paying for the house loan, the utilities & groceries (milk & diaper for my baby) and my bring home pay is around 30k per month & the Mrs is bringing home around 5k a month.

We had a fight this month and she exploded saying she doesn't get any money from me & her colleagues husbands all "put money in their purses when they see its empty".

I am reluctant to give because majority of the money I make goes to my son's education via investments & I do not expect her to chip in at all for the maintainance of the family well being.

Am I the asshole?
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Yeah, u r..

I gave 90% of my income to my fiancée

She handle all household stuff and pay for everything using her salary , which about rm4k

My pay ? Just enough

Although she will ask me every time she wanna buy stuff
Clothes, make up or things

Usually I say go ahead


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