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 Need a little marriage advice, Wife is asking for monthly allowance

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arrowhead7372
post Jun 12 2021, 10:43 PM

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I'm sorry but I have to say this. I disagree with all the "just give. Happy wife happy life" bullshit.

If money is what makes her happy than sorry to say that relationship is broken. I don't give my wife money. She earns her own. I earn my own. We have a joint acc - all household comes from there. We 50/50 everything. Equality.

Worse is "her money is her money and your money is our money" fuck that. I can't accept it if I were u.


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post Jun 12 2021, 11:15 PM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Jun 12 2021, 10:47 PM)
most guys do not have the balls to list down the boundaries to make the relationship/marriage works
they treat marriage like a non business association

if every men negotiated BEFORE getting serious with their spouses, the world will have LESS problems.
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Ya and it shows in this thread.

"Just give la" "happy wife happy life" crap.

Even if u can afford it, least have decent justification as to why la.

I see this as a 1 sided relationship. Even if TS gives in, trust me. Down the road, u will explode. It starts with 5k. Soon is, bank acc access, and so on.

And when shit happens (divorce), she gonna take everything away.

Call me selfish - but u need to protect and take care of yourself before u can take care of others.

This post has been edited by arrowhead7372: Jun 12 2021, 11:15 PM
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post Jun 12 2021, 11:20 PM

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QUOTE(SSwordmanOG @ Jun 12 2021, 11:11 PM)
Your fault: marry the wrong person -> blinded by her beauty only (never evaluate personality to your needs now regret kesian)
Her fault: being a typical princess bitch (theres a difference between being a nice princess one who does chores etc compared to being a bitch unfortunately your current wife)
"FairyTale Solution": You proceed to give her 5k -> be prepared for higher demands in the future. It will not stop judging from her maxed out credit cards
Actual Solution: She is contributing barely anything to the household/family other than being a pretty face. Btw, depending on how old she is that pretty face is gonna go soon. So, in this case, stand your ground unless she's willing to do more then some sort of allowance can be given -> maybe 1k. She not willing to discuss glhf with u because I honestly see the end coming soon

And to the other /ktards who keep preaching happy wife happy life (only possible with a reasonable lady), give her the 5k allowance bla bla bla -> let me give a situation to keep in perspective, in mainland china, quite a number of girls are asking for car, house, etc right to consider marriage? U know whats funny in some cases -> when a certain type of guy comes all that materialistic shit goes out of the window INSTEAD i have seen some princess mainland girls splitting the bill with their desired date when with a typical mainland china guy it would be a free dining for the girl shocking.gif. Conclusion, I hate to use the word beta and alpha but TS are u a man or a mouse? Judging by the amount of guys responding to give her the 5k, no wonder why some of our women go for foreign guys and the funny part is that they dont implement these sort of "rules" for them  rclxms.gif. TS, u are very good at making money so I take it u as a driven individual, do u want to compete with the local guys with some of these retarded rules in place or u wanna be in the international level?
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This.

5k now.
Next month want the hse under her name.
Then, don't allow y to see ur parents cuz she don'tlike your mother.
Then your kid also cannot see their grandparents cuz bad influence
Then u cannot go meet friends. All time is spent with wife.

And so on.

Don't be that guy. Don't just think of HER happiness. Take care of your own mental health first. If u aren't OK, how can u take care of others.
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post Jun 12 2021, 11:25 PM

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Sorry. I got so heated from reading this. I shall stop posting. Lol.



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