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 Need a little marriage advice, Wife is asking for monthly allowance

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post Jun 12 2021, 11:11 PM

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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Jun 12 2021, 11:12 AM)
Hello everyone,

Just a gist of it, I am paying for the house loan, the utilities & groceries (milk & diaper for my baby) and my bring home pay is around 30k per month & the Mrs is bringing home around 5k a month.

We had a fight this month and she exploded saying she doesn't get any money from me & her colleagues husbands all "put money in their purses when they see its empty".

I am reluctant to give because majority of the money I make goes to my son's education via investments & I do not expect her to chip in at all for the maintainance of the family well being.

Am I the asshole?
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Your fault: marry the wrong person -> blinded by her beauty only (never evaluate personality to your needs now regret kesian)
Her fault: being a typical princess bitch (theres a difference between being a nice princess one who does chores etc compared to being a bitch unfortunately your current wife)
"FairyTale Solution": You proceed to give her 5k -> be prepared for higher demands in the future. It will not stop judging from her maxed out credit cards
Actual Solution: She is contributing barely anything to the household/family other than being a pretty face. Btw, depending on how old she is that pretty face is gonna go soon. So, in this case, stand your ground unless she's willing to do more then some sort of allowance can be given -> maybe 1k. She not willing to discuss glhf with u because I honestly see the end coming soon

And to the other /ktards who keep preaching happy wife happy life (only possible with a reasonable lady), give her the 5k allowance bla bla bla -> let me give a situation to keep in perspective, in mainland china, quite a number of girls are asking for car, house, etc right to consider marriage? U know whats funny in some cases -> when a certain type of guy comes all that materialistic shit goes out of the window INSTEAD i have seen some princess mainland girls splitting the bill with their desired date when with a typical mainland china guy it would be a free dining for the girl shocking.gif. Conclusion, I hate to use the word beta and alpha but TS are u a man or a mouse? Judging by the amount of guys responding to give her the 5k, no wonder why some of our women go for foreign guys and the funny part is that they dont implement these sort of "rules" for them rclxms.gif. TS, u are very good at making money so I take it u as a driven individual, do u want to compete with the local guys with some of these retarded rules in place or u wanna be in the international level?
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post Jun 13 2021, 06:04 PM

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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Jun 13 2021, 12:13 PM)
I think this is a little extreme no? Do remember I have a 5 month old son who needs his mom.

Anyways I feel better getting feedback from everyone here

I won't give in that's for sure. Maybe give 1k or something that's fine
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90k wedding, pay for everything, TS has a role of house husband, TS is also the mother of the child. Wanna compete with the "husbands of wife's friends" to give allowance for free (nothing in return from her - no positive change). Who is the real champion? The guy who makes probably 10k per month and doesn't give free monthly allowance (pampers wife once in a while), splits the chores with the wife, wife gives decent piap or the guy who makes 20k per month + /k min salary, no piap, no chores done, no take care of child but...happy wife happy life HAHA rclxm9.gif



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post Jun 13 2021, 06:18 PM

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QUOTE(Selectt @ Jun 13 2021, 05:45 PM)
she wanted to be siew lai lai type? every month got money without working? give her la but she needs to let u go out 'eat'.
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Ya wei, giving 5k per month is already like paying alimony d, time to find PROPER mother for the child smile.gif.
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post Jun 13 2021, 06:27 PM

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QUOTE(xPrototype @ Jun 13 2021, 06:19 PM)
Now things get abit mafan cuz they got a kid lmaoooo I betcha the mom would willing to abandon the kid
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Too bad lo, follow dick dont think with brain like this lo. Is ok most guys have to go through it the hard way, TS will learn. She's not marriage material. Ideally, TS should have broken up with her when she was already showing red signs during a normal relationship. LMAO true, she cares more about her own wellbeing than her own kid. Great mother thumbup.gif happy wife happy life bruh cool2.gif
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post Jun 14 2021, 12:57 PM

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QUOTE(mini orchard @ Jun 14 2021, 11:46 AM)
Hearing directly from the horse mouth is better than quoting.
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If u go to avangelice previous threads created prior to marrying this girl, there is your evidences - straight from the horses mouth.

U think he will admit now that he made a mistake when his ego is all just competing on wife friends' husbands to give more free allowance. A worthless dick measuring contest on who can give more money to their wives. The real winner is the fella who has less but just enough and still get more than what TS is receiving now from his wife.
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post Jun 14 2021, 01:11 PM

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QUOTE(persona93 @ Jun 14 2021, 12:27 PM)
bruh reading all these replies really gives me shivers as a d00d earning 3k at 28 man

perghhhh what happened to girls these days icon_question.gif
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if u can find one girl who treats u better than what TS is receiving from his wife, congrats - gg wp -> that means u have more to offer than TS. But, tbh 3k is not sufficient there is also a min level but it would be funny if u got one that means u are x10 better than TS. 3k > 30k salary HAHA icon_rolleyes.gif
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post Jun 14 2021, 01:23 PM

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QUOTE(Fiona Chin @ Jun 14 2021, 12:13 PM)
Ah, have to communicate patiently. Something might have happen between the be together no matter rich, poor, healthy, sick, till happily ever after marriage vow and situation now.
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Fiona pls dont be so naive, not all ladies are like u who believe the ideal romance. From the info u provided, it seem like your husband is a great guy and u as a wife is also fulfilling her duties which makes u a great lady too. So that makes your marriage great, but that doesn't mean that ALL marriages are as great as yours. There are women who are manipulative AF and all they want is just money and they don't believe in everlasting romance. Likewise, there are men who don't believe in getting stuck to a single married partner when they can switch partners for new excitement (makan luar). So if wanna get married seriously, choose a marriage material partner.

And Fiona, pls read, Avangelice's post and prev threads about his current wife - there are plenty of evidences why a reasonable majority saying hes gonna be a slave for the rest of his marriage life if he continues this path. Don't post when u have just read his opening thread statement only.


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