QUOTE(Avangelice @ Jun 12 2021, 11:12 AM)
Hello everyone,
Just a gist of it, I am paying for the house loan, the utilities & groceries (milk & diaper for my baby) and my bring home pay is around 30k per month & the Mrs is bringing home around 5k a month.
We had a fight this month and she exploded saying she doesn't get any money from me & her colleagues husbands all "put money in their purses when they see its empty".
I am reluctant to give because majority of the money I make goes to my son's education via investments & I do not expect her to chip in at all for the maintainance of the family well being.
Am I the asshole?
Your fault: marry the wrong person -> blinded by her beauty only (never evaluate personality to your needs now regret kesian)Just a gist of it, I am paying for the house loan, the utilities & groceries (milk & diaper for my baby) and my bring home pay is around 30k per month & the Mrs is bringing home around 5k a month.
We had a fight this month and she exploded saying she doesn't get any money from me & her colleagues husbands all "put money in their purses when they see its empty".
I am reluctant to give because majority of the money I make goes to my son's education via investments & I do not expect her to chip in at all for the maintainance of the family well being.
Am I the asshole?
Her fault: being a typical princess bitch (theres a difference between being a nice princess one who does chores etc compared to being a bitch unfortunately your current wife)
"FairyTale Solution": You proceed to give her 5k -> be prepared for higher demands in the future. It will not stop judging from her maxed out credit cards
Actual Solution: She is contributing barely anything to the household/family other than being a pretty face. Btw, depending on how old she is that pretty face is gonna go soon. So, in this case, stand your ground unless she's willing to do more then some sort of allowance can be given -> maybe 1k. She not willing to discuss glhf with u because I honestly see the end coming soon
And to the other /ktards who keep preaching happy wife happy life (only possible with a reasonable lady), give her the 5k allowance bla bla bla -> let me give a situation to keep in perspective, in mainland china, quite a number of girls are asking for car, house, etc right to consider marriage? U know whats funny in some cases -> when a certain type of guy comes all that materialistic shit goes out of the window INSTEAD i have seen some princess mainland girls splitting the bill with their desired date when with a typical mainland china guy it would be a free dining for the girl
Jun 12 2021, 11:11 PM

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