I earn and have sufficient to spend for myself, same as most of you guys, house etc he pays

But sometimes my SO gives me some random allowances to spend on. recently I bought a thermo flask (it's by far the most expensive bottle I own, cuz I've always been a cheapo). He then banked in the amount to me in silence without telling...I saw the transaction on bank statement days later.

Not that I die die want the money, but I really love the affection...so yea, maybe your wife is seeking some sort of affection?

Haha yeah...I bought the thermo flask out of blue 🥺 because I realized warm water helps in soothing my nauseousness. Didn't go through the "bb....this bottle very nice...I want... *hint hint"" stage.