I'm sorry to say this but you sure sit up high with your measly 30k.

The human being who push another human being out from her vagina and this is how you treat her? With your sei sohai "my work is skill intensive" logic?

Nope, not gonna contribute any advice/opinion whatsoever. I just wanna online bash a sei sohai like you. Your wife unlucky to have met you. That's all.

I'm male. Are you even married? How weighted are your shoulders?

Perhaps when it's weighted with family/commitment etc you'll have a different perspective instead of your own tunnel vision kind of way, beta or bust? Providing a better life that's within your means, to arguably the most important person in your life (barring your own mother of course) is in no way beta.

Adequate? Yes TS is providing very much adequately.

Can TS, use A SMALL PORTION to provide a much greater comfort to his family? You ask yourself this. If it's out of his means, or he's not making enough to provide it, then it would have been a different matter entirely. Would you keep 10 breads to yourself, when your wife or kids are asking for 1 more loaf? Would you "logic" yourself out of that situation by saying they have enough to eat won't die?

Dude, we're talking about TS wife mother to his child. Not some side chick. A wife is someone whos importance will grow day by day and eclipse your own mother someday.