Hello everyone,

Just a gist of it, I am paying for the house loan, the utilities & groceries (milk & diaper for my baby) and my bring home pay is around 30k per month & the Mrs is bringing home around 5k a month.

We had a fight this month and she exploded saying she doesn't get any money from me & her colleagues husbands all "put money in their purses when they see its empty".

I am reluctant to give because majority of the money I make goes to my son's education via investments & I do not expect her to chip in at all for the maintainance of the family well being.

Am I the asshole?

I am afraid the situation will be much worse after this if TS declined to give in. But once give in ... haih ... 

BUT WAIT... TS already gave in long time ago before get merrid... she already know his move, his game, so basically now almost kana check mate

ditelan mati emak, diluah mati bapa

but like BillCollector said, sometimes being that arsehole is the only solution

I dont know about others, but I have the soft spot on that 5 months baby.

haih

recap

Prove that she got anger issue so the custody will belong to TS.
for worst case scenario, dont leave the son to single mommymood that is not good.