Need a little marriage advice, Wife is asking for monthly allowance
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 Jun 12 2021, 03:24 PM
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QUOTE(ShadowR1 @ Jun 12 2021, 01:03 PM) Haaa ? Depending if the wealth TS earn or the assets TS bought are before the marriage or during. If before, they don't have to be split 50 50. Alimony is only if TS cheats right? Kid less than 7 yo - mom side. Whatever ts have - chances of 50-50 spilt. Monthly alimony - duno brape ? Ur calculator ade rosak not ?  |
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Jun 12 2021, 03:50 PM
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TS, my advice to you is to show her a bit of love. Give her maybe 3k or 4k without asking anything in return. But make her understand the money is hard earned.
After that you observe if she treats you better. Observe if you are getting sex. Some people respond very well to affection and love. But if after a year or so she's still the same, be prepared to cut your loss. |
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Jun 12 2021, 03:58 PM
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QUOTE(infiniti123 @ Jun 12 2021, 03:49 PM) too late buddy. you've already spoiled her. not to talk about money, but after work you still have to cook wash plates and do laundry?! dam thats too over. Reading your post I realized I too don't mind doing these things but I want to be acknowledged for it. I remember there was a time when my ex gf had no lunch buddies and I abandoned mine to accompany her. After a while when she finally had new lunch buddies, she said she said I should probably eat with my friends as she has accompanied me for so long.for me i do cook but my wife is automatic enough to know that if i cook. she'll do the dishes and vice versa, basic mutual understanding which i hope you'll be able to to discuss. i dont bring home as much as you but my wife does ask for a sub-card which i gave her willingly as i know what she buys will be for our newborn or for household usage. other than that, similarly i pay for everything at home, the car loans, the house and i do the dinner as well. but most important is that she acknowlege im doing all these which aint easy. |
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Jun 12 2021, 08:22 PM
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All those suggesting TS to give but ask what will she do to in return for that 5k, I don't think it will work. It will only make everything transactional in the relationship. Later one day TS horny and ask for sex, the wife can ask what is he going to give for sex?
See what I mean? Not that I have a solution. Just saying. |
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