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 Need a little marriage advice, Wife is asking for monthly allowance

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Aurora Boreali
post Jun 12 2021, 06:57 PM

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Many women would kill to be able to "capture" a husband who earns 6 times her salary. She's probably feeling extremely lucky to have done that and now feeling like it's time to reap her rewards from being the wife of a rich husband. I'm not married and am financially independent myself albeit earning only half your pay. Even then I would think, on particularly stressful days at work, that it would be nice to have a rich husband. I'm pretty sure your wife is trying to milk you for what it's worth.

I see you being really active in the finance section and you seem to have a good head on your shoulders. What I did not anticipate was that you did not talk about finances with your then girlfriend when you were still courting each other and thinking about getting married. I'm not sure what blindsided you to decide not to even know about her spending habits and financial views before you popped the ring.
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post Jun 12 2021, 08:52 PM

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A lot of red flags if you read back your own thread TS:
QUOTE(RO Player @ Feb 23 2019, 11:46 AM)
think carefully....for potential divorce in 3-5 years..

- is ur gf desperate..doing rash decisions
- does ur in law asking for money
- does ur gf have many guys friends..
- does ur gf dont cook
- does ur gf luv to pretend?
- always make excuses
- cannot tolerate or discuss..always fights
- dont think the same
if she gets 3 out 8....beware..
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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Feb 23 2019, 11:48 AM)
bro if I don't trust her or have any issues with her why would I even propose yet alone spend for the wedding
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Famous last words right there.

QUOTE(Avangelice @ Jun 12 2021, 11:31 AM)
You are right I do not trust her. If I let her handle our money, when the storm comes we don't have any savings at all.
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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Feb 23 2019, 10:48 AM)
yeah we knew what we wanted within this 5 year relationship
my dad requested 12 tables
my mom 8 tables
her parents 22 tables
her 4 tables.
me one table.

I'm the one who don't have friends.
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What kind of conversations were you having with her in the 5 years so much so that you didn't know she was maxing out her CC? And that you didn't know her financial mindset and spending habits?

EDIT: Can't help but dig more into your past posts. Your relationship started off with sooo many huge red flags. Sorry I have to bold the "desparate" part on RO Player's prediction
QUOTE(Avangelice @ Dec 27 2016, 10:00 PM)
Seriously in what age now a days people think that marrying young is good. I am just 28 years old and my girlfriend is 31 years old and we been only together for two years. I went to her house just now and my girlfriend told me her parents are saying why does it seem like he isn't planning for the future? we both had a huge argument and I drove off without saying good bye and she slammed the door.

what the fuck? with this shit economy its been years since I took a long vacation to go for travel from my clinic, I hardly go out these days and everything I can save I try to save. sometimes I need to think twice buying pizza for myself as I need to save up for my future.  i have a fucking house ready and yet to them it seems like I am not seriously growing up.

who here is getting the same shit? sorry for the rude words. I'm just so angry.
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You need professional marriage counselling, seeing your relationship started off with so many red flags. It has just culminated in a baby and no sex and wife demanding more money. The ugly truth just reared its heads

EDIT2: SO TS KNEW ABOUT HER ATTITUDE TOWARDS FINANCE
QUOTE(Avangelice @ Dec 27 2016, 10:29 PM)
and moreover i just found out throughout her ten years after coming out from high school she has ZERO savings and one of those I wanna work so I can travel type of girls. I had to chip in money to deal with her repair work and save her ass countless of times for not saving and spending every month.

pot calling kettle black kah. you expect me to buckle up when your finances are shit poor. sorry not looking for a broke ass wife as a liability until she fixes her shit.
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Why did you marry her again?

This post has been edited by Aurora Boreali: Jun 12 2021, 09:12 PM
Aurora Boreali
post Jun 12 2021, 09:16 PM

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QUOTE(fiqir @ Jun 12 2021, 09:04 PM)
Her hutang all that shitt thing ( CC, personal loan, any shit loan ) .Dont ever be stupid and help her pay.

All that shit thing. Should be her parents or her family to help clear that debt she make.
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TS enabled her since they were just 2 years into the relationship:

QUOTE(Avangelice @ Dec 27 2016, 10:29 PM)
and moreover i just found out throughout her ten years after coming out from high school she has ZERO savings and one of those I wanna work so I can travel type of girls. I had to chip in money to deal with her repair work and save her ass countless of times for not saving and spending every month.

pot calling kettle black kah. you expect me to buckle up when your finances are shit poor. sorry not looking for a broke ass wife as a liability until she fixes her shit.
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post Jun 13 2021, 09:24 AM

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QUOTE(Solar Calendar @ May 25 2021, 03:22 PM)
I want to fully conquer her before going for next lady. At least i leave a mark on her. My plan is to leave my mark on 10 women. 3 years each. You only live once. I cant brain why people stay together for longer than 3 years.
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QUOTE(Solar Calendar @ Jun 13 2021, 04:08 AM)
I was a bad person untill my fiance left me. I was influenced by my male friends who indulge in promiscuousness.I repented and start to read up on feminism. Some ktards also PM me about my misguidance. So I want to do the opposite of what I was. Our relationship is mended. Soon she will be my wife.
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QUOTE(Solar Calendar @ Jun 13 2021, 04:17 AM)
I realise males have privilege. If u ditch ur wife, she will find it hard to remarry. But as a male, you can easily marry again. That is why I said women are born with inherent disadvantage. I used to be like you guys, blame everything on the wife, but after a very depressing phase in my life where I took up feminism study, I realised i must be the opposite of what I was.
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Your depressing phase was just the last 2 weeks? Took up feminism study in the last 2 weeks and completely changed your view in 2 weeks' time? Bullshit

People, don't feed this troll anymore
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post Jun 13 2021, 11:37 AM

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QUOTE(Juggerballz @ Jun 13 2021, 11:33 AM)
Sorry to hear bro.

Don't mind asking, how old are you 2 and how long you 2 have been married?
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Check back here. This is just TS ignoring the red flags in his wife's behavior since they were just 2 years into their relationship. They were together for 5 years before getting married in 2019.

QUOTE(Aurora Boreali @ Jun 12 2021, 08:52 PM)
A lot of red flags if you read back your own thread TS:
Famous last words right there.
What kind of conversations were you having with her in the 5 years so much so that you didn't know she was maxing out her CC? And that you didn't know her financial mindset and spending habits?

EDIT: Can't help but dig more into your past posts. Your relationship started off with sooo many huge red flags. Sorry I have to bold the "desparate" part on RO Player's prediction
You need professional marriage counselling, seeing your relationship started off with so many red flags. It has just culminated in a baby and no sex and wife demanding more money. The ugly truth just reared its heads

EDIT2: SO TS KNEW ABOUT HER ATTITUDE TOWARDS FINANCE
Why did you marry her again?
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post Jun 14 2021, 02:10 PM

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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Nov 2 2015, 11:41 AM)
already did la. she just zones out and yawns. SMH. our attitude towards life is totally different but i still love her craziness. If i dated a girl like me, i think it would be very dark and brooding
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QUOTE(SSwordmanOG @ Jun 14 2021, 01:23 PM)
And Fiona, pls read, Avangelice's post and prev threads about his current wife - there are plenty of evidences why a reasonable majority saying hes gonna be a slave for the rest of his marriage life if he continues this path. Don't post when u have just read his opening thread statement only.
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The above thread from 2015 is the first thread in his topic history that is of his current wife. He stated in another post that they dated for 5 years, married in year 2019. So this 2015 thread must be of his wife

Conclusion is he stuck in d*ck in crazy and is now paying for it. And that thread alone had 14 pages too. So /k tards already did their job in 2015. He didn't listen
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