Rich + phd = success
Poor + phd = fail

What happens in clubbing stays in clubbing 😁

But 20s, when we're enjoying life, we don't realize our parents are aging.

Hit 30, they've aged. Then you think back, why wasted and become char siew in the 20s.

hey im asking you your lay count
because you say you often go nightclub, your ons level should be geng lah

Tbh yes i have the feel.. but if it was not the mistake, i will not learn from it right?

U cant learn something new if u did not make mistake in your life

So, just accept it and move on

definitely not

had a blast

I fully focus on work and careers in teen days. Now 8n my late 30s I don't have friends. Only clients and supplier. You can't be close friend with them or they will take advantage on me. Damn sad

i wasted on Diablo 2, Diablo 3, Dota and shit tons of online games...

and also ex gfs...

Sometimes these business partners are better than fake friends... they can help you out better than fake friends
Bcs of you they make money they have business to do

This post has been edited by Pohziliang96: Mar 19 2021, 10:20 PM

I used to have closed friend, hang out and do crazy things together. Now already lost in touch. We seen each other but not closed anymore.

Work life balance is lively important

This post has been edited by blek: Mar 19 2021, 10:26 PM

Malaysian average life expectancy is about 75 y/o.

For male, it is 72+/-, and for female, it is 78+/-.

Taking 75 as an example, if you are 25-year-old now, you have already lived 1/3 of your life. If you are 38 this year, by average, you have less than half the time of your life.

If you don't appreciate whatever time you have now and do the things you like, and with a glimpse of an eye, you will reach the next milestone: 2/3 of your life at 50-years-old, and you will look back and wish that you have spent it better.

If you are still waiting for a sign, THIS IS IT.

Starting tomorrow, be the change you want to see in yourself.

This post has been edited by eugenemah7: Mar 19 2021, 10:38 PM

you think its cheaper to court amoi to piap?
those luxury dating and clubing not cheap bro, and no guarantee return.

currently in 20s, planned to do my first backpacking trip to Indonesia in July 2020 and Vietnam in 2021. my plans gone down the drain when COVID hits. stuck at home for a year now.
it sucks to be 20s in 2020, 2021 and possibly 2022.
imo, my 20s is doesn't really sucks. Trying to improve it by exploring new places, learning new skills and learning new languages.

This post has been edited by maprocks: Mar 20 2021, 01:33 AM

I spent much of my 20s stuck inside a VW Passat on the M25, M40, M6, M1 and A34 chasing one client after another.

Video games? I did not play video games in my 20s, company issued laptop was more than sufficient.

Porn? Was not into that either as UK data was super expensive back then and I lived in places where there were no broadband.

Hobbies? I did spend some time on hobbies but I should have put more time into it. I did not due to work commitments.

TV? Never been much of a TV person.

Language? I wanted to pick up French but it never happened, would have been good if I did as it would complement my good command of the German language.

Travel? I traveled extensively in my 20s, too bad it was always for work. Holidays? Summer months I worked. Autumn I usually holidayed in Thailand for a month in October. Other than that it was always work trips which were plentiful then.

Parties? I had enough of those during uni and it felt chavvy to go clubbing once past uni age, instead preferred having a nice drink at a nice countryside pub and having a good conversation instead.

Girls? I knew more than my fair share.

Career? Back then if you were in your 20s and given a VW Passat as a company car that meant you were doing fantastic. If you were average you were given a French car or a Ford Mondeo and if you were underperforming it would be a Vauxhall Astra before you get your P45. Nothing beat that feel of going to a pub and placing that VW key on the bar table together with that BlackBerry on the bar counter at the pub or going home and parking that VW Passat where neighbours could see because it was the ultimate symbol to be given a VW Passat as a company car in your 20s. Alas towards the tail end of my 20s company cars went out of fashion because of sweeping tax changes brought on by that Scottish idiot named Gordon Brown.

Business? Never had any interest to do so.

Regrets or would I change anything? Yeah I guess I probably should not have left the UK as heart was always there and always felt one and at home in a British setting but career progression meant a posting to Singapore so there you go.

Someday I will definitely return to live in England.

i had a nice job in my 20s that looked great on my resume
i travelled internationally and i moved overseas unlike people who like to stay in one kampung eating the same dish forever
i was comfortable financially
i didn't waste it on doing things the society wants me to
i didn't have any ex
i experimented a ton of stuff which I had no regrets

Wasted my 20s being too serious in church activities

24 liao still kid

Kid are not allowed on Kopitiam araso.

Where to Bang Bang Bang

study degree that i have no interest. work some shitty boring job that i dont care about. no sex no travel. cope with games and porn. have money but too stingy to spend. still use old pc wear old clothes. no style no fashion. life gone wrong everywhere.

same here