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Skylinestar
post Jul 17 2022, 03:33 PM

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I'm using Tinder. It feels like useless ad more than anything.
First, you have hos that are linking telegram or instagram (the intention is obvious).
Then, you have majority of people who just browse tinder for fun. Yes, just browse for fun. Not for relationship. Not to meetup. Not to chat.
Next, profile pics without their faces. Common, you're in a dating site.
If you look into >27yo category, majority were married. That wedding ring finger.

Do people filter by race?

What's the distance you guys/gals set?

I haven't tried other platform yet. Tried a few last time but they don't offer distance setting. IMO, no point travelling 1 hour for a meal. If you do know a platform with distance setting, do share.

No, I'm not going to pay for premium features.

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post Jul 18 2022, 07:20 AM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Jul 18 2022, 12:31 AM)
I met my bf from here sweat.gif

Before I met him, I used a lot of apps end up all scams.

Becareful when using.
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What u mean by scam? What happen?
Skylinestar
post Jul 18 2022, 07:25 AM

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QUOTE(Takudan @ Jul 18 2022, 02:18 AM)
Ayy congratulations! All the best and may you both grow together smile.gif

@topic:
I have used these two and met genuine people:
1. Coffee Meets Bagel
2. Facebook Dating
...Met my current bf from (2) tongue.gif

Regardless of apps, you should just skip 10/10 profiles because if it's too good to be true, then it's not! Aside from CMB which has the 7-day match period, I see no need to connect outside the app. I spoke with more guys with (1) but less made it to meetup stage because I couldn't warm up quickly enough to feel comfortable to share my contact.
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Can CMB set distance ?
Skylinestar
post Jul 18 2022, 10:43 AM

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QUOTE(ahjummma @ Jul 18 2022, 08:48 AM)
i am not on dating apps. been told that these apps are very toxic. still prefer meeting people the old fashioned way smile.gif
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Not toxic when there's no match & no reply.
Skylinestar
post Jul 18 2022, 06:54 PM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Jul 18 2022, 06:33 PM)
Scammers all the way in those apps... Especially tantan, paktor or tinder.
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What happen ?
Skylinestar
post Aug 2 2022, 04:32 PM

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QUOTE(novblaze @ Aug 2 2022, 03:48 PM)
Is working.

I met my ex and my wife from tinder.
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Are you above average? Your race?
Skylinestar
post Aug 14 2022, 10:16 AM

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I'm using CMB now after disappointed with Tinder. I don't understand the meaning inside CMB.
In the chat section...
...Person1: Congrats, it's a match! You matched with Person1 thanks to Discover Likes. (Person1 avatar has a love icon overlay).
...Person2: Person2 liked you back!
Why does the Person2 avatar doesn't have the love icon overlay? I think I click like for Person2, same as Person1. I cannot remember.
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post Aug 15 2022, 10:22 AM

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QUOTE(Ramjade @ Aug 15 2022, 10:21 AM)
What's full name of CMB?
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Coffee Meets Bagel
Skylinestar
post Aug 17 2022, 03:03 PM

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QUOTE(Ramjade @ Aug 17 2022, 01:25 PM)
For CMB, do you click heart and wait for them to like you back or straight message them?

Sorry new to this. Lol.
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u sure u can straight away message? (normally a premium feature)
Skylinestar
post Aug 18 2022, 02:03 PM

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Are there many scammers in CMB?
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post Aug 19 2022, 07:29 AM

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QUOTE(Ramjade @ Aug 18 2022, 10:58 PM)
Getting old la. Need to settle down.

Thanks for the tips. Yike. I have just been leaving likes without any messages. No wonder no text or likes back sad.gif

What's your recommendation range? I put 80km. Don't know if it's too big area.
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I only put 16km
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post Oct 18 2022, 09:46 AM

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Is this common?
Chat with you nicely for 1 week. Then suddenly ghosted.
This happened to ALL my matches.
Maybe it's just how lousy I am at talking. So I guess guys who can't talk are destined to be foreveralones?

One of the girl says it's not normal for girls to initiate conversation. Is this true? Guy has to do all the work? Or is this just a Malaysia thing?

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post Oct 18 2022, 06:49 PM

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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 18 2022, 10:18 AM)
She seems to fit my criteria and all but only set back is she taking things extremely slow, so I gotta follow the pacing too.
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What do you mean by slow? You mean she hardly opens the dating platform and chat with you?
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post Feb 22 2024, 08:58 AM

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QUOTE(Agent 45 @ Jan 26 2024, 09:34 PM)
For my case, she never see getting into relationship as a thing for her, maybe just optional. She's always busy with work, work day and night. I msg her but she could just leave it for days before she bluetick me and reply. Even on weekends, she would just ignore her phone for the whole day. Usually I only text her on weekend, but very less interaction. If I never initiated, I think we would have been strangers. At the same time, I'm worried that I'm being too pushy.

How did u get your gf? What are your tips?
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how long have you been in this relationship?
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post Feb 22 2024, 10:40 AM

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QUOTE(Agent 45 @ Feb 22 2024, 10:21 AM)
First date was around last october.
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since she is busy, how often do you see each other? once a month?
does she say she like/love you?
do you want to continue this relationship?

 

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