Hi
im a husband and a father to 1year old son

just a quick question a few months back my wife suffering pain starting from the pelvic area to calves area (my wife cakap macam tulang pelvic berlaga dengan tulang peha then sampai betis rasa sakit) which is quite weird what actually causes the pain..she never slipped and fell before..sometime she cant even stand on her own
and needed help my help to get up or she cant turn her body from laying down to laying side ways especially when she lay on a hard flat surface

due to my MIL advice..i took her to see bidan kampung for massage..she did feel relief but only a few days..the bidan told her the pain she suffer are sakit urat/salah urat where the coldness and angin dalam badan causes it (we sleep in air conditioned room)..we did increase the room temperature even she sleep with sock on nowdays but the pain is still there

as my concern what actually causes this pain?are they the after effect from epidural or like what the bidan said sakit urat/salah urat?

This post has been edited by gymnewbie: Jan 27 2021, 04:32 PM

already told her to go and do check up she to scared to know the truth behind the pain giving so much excuses covid la..poor our son la..might drag her to hospital sometimes

on really?if im not mistaken slip disk can also causes by epidural injection right?

see my reply above...already tried to bring her to hospital but so many excuses
asking here at least can get some info whatt

This post has been edited by gymnewbie: Jan 27 2021, 04:55 PM

sorry to hear that..this what i worried for..she kept giving the pity face when i want to take her to hospital..plus using my son who gona take care of him and etc2 my heart melted stright away

This post has been edited by gymnewbie: Jan 27 2021, 05:06 PM

thanks everyone after pujuk here and there i manage the take my wife to see a doctor...the doctor confirm us this is one of the after effect of epidural she took while giving birth..the injection from the epidural may disturb the nerve that causing the pain..it is not advisable to lay on hard surface anymore..pain killer was given to reduce the pain and only taken when necessary..feels bad she had to endure this maybe my son is the only child cant see she suffer more