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post Jul 17 2020, 12:33 PM, updated 6y ago

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Hi married/engaged k/tard, wanna ask normally how many carat diamond ring you will buy for your partner during engagement time ?

is 0.3 - 0.5 carat good enough ? my budget is around 4k-6k.

and what other aspect to look into when choosing diamond ring ?
any reputable shop to recommend ?

Many thanks man
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post Jul 17 2020, 12:36 PM

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QUOTE(incubus69 @ Jul 17 2020, 12:33 PM)
Hi married/engaged k/tard, wanna ask normally how many carat diamond ring you will buy for your partner during engagement time ?

is 0.3 - 0.5 carat good enough ? my budget is around 4k-6k.

and what other aspect to look into when choosing diamond ring ?
any reputable shop to recommend ?

Many thanks man
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post Jul 17 2020, 12:37 PM

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not just carat la, got to see the other C...clarity, cut, color etc
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post Jul 17 2020, 12:37 PM

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this one depends on your partner as well as her circle of friends which indirectly sets her expectation... so if all her married friends is wearing 1 carat... then 1 carat ring is normal..

having said that, buy within your means... if 0.3 is what you can afford then go for it... if she gets upset it's small then maybe you shouldn't marry her lol

reputable shops like those commercial ones SK, poh kong etc....

Diamonds they will explain the 4C bla bla bla... cut, clarity, color, etc.... the lowest priority should be color because naked eye can't really tell the difference.... the cut of the diamond is most important... if it's cut well it'll be shiny so that's something eye can tell difference

good luck bro and congrats!
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post Jul 17 2020, 12:40 PM

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oh 1 more thing... SK got lab grown diamonds which is the same as actual diamonds except it's lab grown, they call it Star Carat or something

with your budget, get lab grown one can get a bigger carat... but of course make sure she's okay with it la...
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post Jul 17 2020, 12:40 PM

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I would rather recommend you to get gold and keep it as a couple. You see, diamond is a scam, it's not really that rare and its scarcity is rather played up by limitting market supply - predominantly by big players like De Beers.
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post Jul 17 2020, 12:41 PM

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Vvs 0.3 - o.5 white gold. Eh this not /k 20k standard. Just go those sk, poh kong, habib etc see lo. If mau sibeh ho liao, go pm kambing koh sifu.

https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3224055

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post Jul 17 2020, 12:43 PM

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QUOTE(incubus69 @ Jul 17 2020, 12:33 PM)
Hi married/engaged k/tard, wanna ask normally how many carat diamond ring you will buy for your partner during engagement time ?

is 0.3 - 0.5 carat good enough ? my budget is around 4k-6k.

and what other aspect to look into when choosing diamond ring ?
any reputable shop to recommend ?

Many thanks man
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post Jul 17 2020, 12:44 PM

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Ayam didn't have engagement. We went to JPN and got married. Gip waifu wedding ring a gold band RM388 buy from Poh Kong, inside engraved "I LOVE YOU". My ring buy silver, RM120, kenot engrave because seller didn't have the machine. That was it.

But can gip you suggestion based on what ayam saw my brother did - Habib.
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post Jul 17 2020, 12:47 PM

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I think 4-6k can buy pretty decent already

If u not rushing go survey a few shop at malls like 1u or midvalley
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post Jul 17 2020, 12:49 PM

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The price gap in this
0.3
0.5
0.7
1.0

So below 0.45 is good price more than 0.45 will near 0.5.
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post Jul 17 2020, 12:52 PM

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For your budget..you can get quite a good ring already..i got mine from a jewelry store in Publika 1st floor

Mine was around 4.2k. I saw another ring the cut and quality apparently is higher according to the sales guy but the diamond itself was small and it costs ard 6.2k, he recommended me to go for a bigger diamond with the lower carat and clarity..so bought the 4.2k, with the much bigger diamond.

Remember none of her friends are going to carry the device to see the cut,clarity and what not.

As long as its a legitimate diamond and not zirconia. All matters is the bigger the rock the better..

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QUOTE(s@ni @ Jul 17 2020, 12:36 PM)
beli gelang emas lebar 1 inch  flex.gif berat 1 kg. sure amoi manyak saiyang u  laugh.gif
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tgn either patah because too weighy, or kena pancung cause of that 1kg gelang.


but back to topic. TS, tailored jewel seems pretty ok, they have a small boutique at atria, but moving to MV start of August
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post Jul 17 2020, 01:14 PM

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Get 0.3 from tiffiany & co.
Fit your 20k/month status
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post Jul 17 2020, 01:15 PM

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QUOTE(hotdayum @ Jul 17 2020, 12:44 PM)
Ayam didn't have engagement. We went to JPN and got married. Gip waifu wedding ring a gold band RM388 buy from Poh Kong, inside engraved "I LOVE YOU". My ring buy silver, RM120, kenot engrave because seller didn't have the machine. That was it.

But can gip you suggestion based on what ayam saw my brother did - Habib.
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But to TS,
why diamond, get moissanite
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post Jul 17 2020, 01:15 PM

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QUOTE(triple02 @ Jul 17 2020, 12:52 PM)
For your budget..you can get quite a good ring already..i got mine from a jewelry store in Publika 1st floor

Mine was around 4.2k. I saw another ring the cut and quality apparently is higher according to the sales guy but the diamond itself was small and it costs ard 6.2k, he recommended me to go for a bigger diamond with the lower carat and  clarity..so bought the 4.2k, with the much bigger diamond.

Remember none of her friends are going to carry the device to see the cut,clarity and what not.

As long as its a legitimate diamond and not zirconia. All matters is the bigger the rock the better..
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her firends also wont have the alat gemological to detect the zirconia size anggur

anyway, the sales guy maciems asking you to buy avanza = bigger, instead of ketam/vios.

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post Jul 17 2020, 01:15 PM

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Your diamond ring should be your 6 months salary.
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post Jul 17 2020, 01:30 PM

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QUOTE(incubus69 @ Jul 17 2020, 12:33 PM)
Hi married/engaged k/tard, wanna ask normally how many carat diamond ring you will buy for your partner during engagement time ?

is 0.3 - 0.5 carat good enough ? my budget is around 4k-6k.

and what other aspect to look into when choosing diamond ring ?
any reputable shop to recommend ?

Many thanks man
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Enough / not enough depends on girlfriend and her family. Not for us to answer. Set a budget and just go with it. For your budget that's what you're gonna get anyway. But then again, there are differences in colour, cut and clarity which can make a hell of of difference.

Certain group of people (stereotyping here, but mostly true) likes big and big alone. Don't care colour M or N, clarity S2 or S3 or even I1 or I2 and Cut being Fair also accept.

Others have preference for colour need to be at least E/F, clarity need to be VS and Cut need to be excellent.

In Malaysia, I suggest Wah Chan or Habib. Personally, I prefer Habib as their diamond stock is significantly more and for those in the know, you may be able to find bargains there. But for the uninitiated, both makes not much difference, Wah Chan may be a better choice due to them offering more ring choices.

When choosing Diamonds, those who tak tau just hentam tibai whatever the salesman bring you. Those who know a bit will want to see different diamonds variations of the 4Cs, usually different Carat for the same colour or different colour for the same carat. Those who knows slightly more will care about where the inclusion in the diamond is, how visible it is and can choose the best out of SI1 or VS2 or VS1. Those who know even more will care about the cut quality beyond Excellent, looking into angles and the diamond chart to get the best value out of the Excellent cut for the lowest price.
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post Jul 17 2020, 01:31 PM

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QUOTE(dizoriso @ Jul 17 2020, 12:37 PM)
this one depends on your partner as well as her circle of friends which indirectly sets her expectation... so if all her married friends is wearing 1 carat... then 1 carat ring is normal..

having said that, buy within your means... if 0.3 is what you can afford then go for it... if she gets upset it's small then maybe you shouldn't marry her lol

reputable shops like those commercial ones SK, poh kong etc....

Diamonds they will explain the 4C bla bla bla... cut, clarity, color, etc.... the lowest priority should be color because naked eye can't really tell the difference.... the cut of the diamond is most important... if it's cut well it'll be shiny so that's something eye can tell difference

good luck bro and congrats!
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Colour is the easiest to tell out of the 3 (ignoring cut).

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The smaller finger your partner has, the smaller is suitable.

Too big diamond on small finger is just bad, elegance wise.

I bought .44ct for my wife. her ring size already near to baby size LOL.
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post Jul 17 2020, 01:40 PM

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I would say go for simple elegance.

Too extravagant, it will be kept in the drawer only.
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post Jul 17 2020, 01:44 PM

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how often she gonna wear the ring

although in this time and age u realize the diamond ring gonna feature heavily in the pictures, that might be a consideration ... especially nowadays ppl like to berlagak on instagram
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TS is incubus_skj dupe ke?
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QUOTE(incubus69 @ Jul 17 2020, 12:33 PM)
Hi married/engaged k/tard, wanna ask normally how many carat diamond ring you will buy for your partner during engagement time ?

is 0.3 - 0.5 carat good enough ? my budget is around 4k-6k.

and what other aspect to look into when choosing diamond ring ?
any reputable shop to recommend ?

Many thanks man
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If it looks nice and it calls to you then that's the ring. Don't worry much.
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post Jul 17 2020, 01:48 PM

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Go Zcova buy cukup laaa if you Wanna buy diamond

Buy so clear so white syok sendiri only, not like ppl going to ask you for your GIA cert whenever they see your ring
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post Jul 17 2020, 01:55 PM

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Just remember, the platinum/gold ring that holds the diamond has more actual value than the diamond itself. Just a freaking overabundance, artificially hoarded rock.
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post Jul 17 2020, 01:59 PM

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Buy within your means, if she say no cos too small. Take that as a win, save up so much trouble.

People needs to spend less for something you wouldn't even look at after few years - wedding photo, dinner, gifts
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post Jul 17 2020, 02:01 PM

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i tell you what, spend 2k max....itu pun if its really that "nice".

its a waste of money la, hangat that time only, then no care already.

wait u ask same question regarding marriage photo & dinner hahahah
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1 carrot lah.

20k pipul say 2 carrot and all nice C characteristics no problem.


Rule of thumb is if average pipul not 20k celery, sebulan gaji = ring price. If generous, 3 bulan gaji.


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post Jul 17 2020, 02:05 PM

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buy from shopee, buy the cheapest will do
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post Jul 17 2020, 02:08 PM

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contrary to popular belief, diamonds are not forever
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post Jul 17 2020, 02:14 PM

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Buy whatever you feel is reasonable lar, otherwise the internet will tell you to prepare your 3 months salary, in k/ standard, that translates to 60k
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post Jul 17 2020, 02:16 PM

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If you truly love her please go for Tiffany and co. Later anniversary get Cartier bracelet.
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post Jul 17 2020, 02:23 PM

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Can buy artificial diamond then custom made the ring what if want bigger size. 1 carrat only 400-500 je but do tell yr wife thou else later gadoh.
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post Jul 17 2020, 02:25 PM

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If you rich like me then can buy this one. Confirm girl will say yes

https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=4916692&hl=
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you can get it within that budget, just that the cut and clarity and etc not so good only. Btw, try get those ring with 6claws. even the same carat diamond, 6claws will make it look bigger.
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her family rich higher carat
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u want to buy from poh kong/tomei i got vip card.. can get discount.
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if u gonna buy a diamond ring, please make sure it is at least 1 Carat.. everything lesser than that is not worth it on the open market.

Otherwise, you can consider zirconia..

looks exactly like diamond and nobody can tell the difference la.
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QUOTE(nasiputih @ Jul 17 2020, 01:15 PM)
her firends also wont have the alat gemological to detect the zirconia size anggur

anyway, the sales guy maciems asking you to buy avanza = bigger, instead of ketam/vios.
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then u buy zirconia lah when u propose
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QUOTE(kons @ Jul 17 2020, 03:04 PM)
u want to buy from poh kong/tomei i got vip card.. can get discount.
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post Oct 17 2020, 05:22 PM

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QUOTE(incubus69 @ Jul 17 2020, 12:33 PM)
Hi married/engaged k/tard, wanna ask normally how many carat diamond ring you will buy for your partner during engagement time ?

is 0.3 - 0.5 carat good enough ? my budget is around 4k-6k.

and what other aspect to look into when choosing diamond ring ?
any reputable shop to recommend ?

Many thanks man
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post Oct 17 2020, 05:47 PM

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Wah chan diamonds are better priced , u can opt for diamonds then choose the ring design

My opinion cut isn't that important but the clarity at least level VVS2 onwards

Your eye can tell the difference from the clarity when compare to others

Go survey around and u will learn
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I got mine here, you can go here and check it out.

https://www.zcova.com/
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QUOTE(SuperTuhan @ Oct 17 2020, 05:47 PM)
Wah chan diamonds are better priced , u can opt for diamonds then choose the ring design

My opinion cut isn't that important but the clarity at least level VVS2 onwards

Your eye can tell the difference from the clarity when compare to others

Go survey around and u will learn
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post Oct 17 2020, 10:00 PM

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honestly, those amoi’s that i knew all aiming for 1 carat atleast.. easily 15k-20k

0.3 - 0.5 they say engagement/relationship ring level...

sigh...

these days girls....



 

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