As a gay myself, i agree. i believe sexuality is "borned", it is not a choice & it is fixed, just like how you can't change yourself from liking a Vagina to liking a Penis, same goes to us. It is impossible. However for a man that wanted to be a woman (vice versa), hmm.. I don't want to comment much (as it is sensitive), but you can still be a man & like other men. Changing gender is a choice.

Well, this is a serious question, do you (or any forumers that in a relationship) just stick to your partner or does hook around with someone other than your partner as well?

I am currently in a 6 years++ relationship, but my bf always secretly hooking around with others through Grindr account since year 1. Tired of fighting about it and now i just.. don't give a F about it anymore.

I've discussed this with my bf on the 5th year of our relationship,
1) Why weren't we just breakup so you can do it freely?
= Because i love you and i wanna live & share my life with you.
2) If you really can't change, why not we do an open-relationship?
= No, i don't like the idea of you being touch by someone else.
3) Do you think a 3s-relationship may solve this?
= No unless the third person only for me and he can't do anything with you.

I've come to think, Malaysian gay community is indeed very toxic, but i may be wrong, maybe this is normal and i just have to adapt?