I have some questions.

1) Have you ever calculated how much is needed to raise a child in Msia until at least 18 years old?

2) If you have, what made you took the leap (knowing it is VERY expensive)?

3) Does the cost scare you? This goes especially to the men who are supposed to be the provider.

I know right...

I get this from Asians a lot. When they say this, all I hear is 'I use my children as retirement plan'. Sounds like a selfish reason to have children though. No offense.