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 Hollow, lost and frustrated, Tell me what can I do in this situation

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V429
post Nov 19 2019, 09:08 AM

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I would suggest you to post in Cupid corner actually. In your situation, sounds like with women you usually jump to dating stage without going thru friendship stage. If that is the case, try to develop stable friendship with the ladies first before dating them, so that they really get to know you and have time to ponder on your conditions and may come to accept them with time.

Do you have good female friends around you that may be a potential partner? Maybe worth giving it a shot?
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post Nov 19 2019, 05:46 PM

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QUOTE(Pongteh @ Nov 19 2019, 05:38 PM)
Yeah because mostly recent years I been doing a lot of online dating. One or 2 friend of a friend but it's rare. So online dating, either you hit it on or off. No Grey area to build friendship first.

I don't have much single female friends left at this age. And those if I really wanted to go after, I had tried but no avail.  Maybe need to relook at all my old friends and see if there are any still single and call them out for catch up see how it goes. Or Maybe need to expend my social circle towards younger ladies. Thanks.
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Good idea to reconnect with your old friends. Expanding your social circle is also good. Maybe you have some interest groups (example cycling group, yoga group, etc) that you can search for potential partner as well.

I also just remembered, you can always try posting at Cupid corner classifieds. All the best.

 

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