QUOTE(Ukeke @ Jul 23 2019, 08:49 AM)
Have u guys ever cheated on ur partner while u are in a relationship or married?
I admit, actually I did, once. That was v long time ago when I was in uni. I was dating my gf that time, when I came across this sweet junior during club activities. She was new to uni and I showed her around and treated her nicely. Soon, we love each other and I started the affair. My gf found out one day when her bestie told her. Soon, both side also left me. Both of them are really good and wife materials. Ever since, I no longer dare to cheat in a relationship anymore.
U guys?
High school years, was 2 timing because started going out with 1 girl named Sarah, she said she did not want to lose her virginity till marriage. We broke up and I started seeing this girl Angela. Sarah changed her mind and we did it. Went on for 5 months then they found out from each other through a mutual friend.
Senior year of high school, cheated on a the girl I had been dating for 6 months with her BFF who happened to have a bf at that time but LDR online. Wasn't anything special just a cuddle on the bed of her redneck grade Ford pickup truck that lead to more than just a cuddle. Of course she told on me.
Once I went to college I became a good boy, I decided to turn a new leaf and never cheated again until I was with the ex-wife.
Cheated on her on the following occasions :-
The 100 day celebration of our 1st child. She went back to her parents, I went out to meet with my boss for some discussions, well the discussions ended with more than just a business discussion. We did it a few times and then she resigned to join a competitor.
Was having some major fights with her, was flirting a lot with one Aussie at the gym. She asked why I looked unhappy and she said she was separated from her husband and if I wanted to cuddle I could go to her place but first I had to keep the pace. We did it quite a few times but then she decided to reconcile with her husband.
Again 4 years later was having a lot of fights with her. Decided I would go out for a long drive to calm my nerves down. Drove to Frasers Hill and while there met one Italian that we had a good time talking to each other. We met up a few more times and one nite it just happened.
The last one was a month before we decided to move on, we were having massive battles. I was in Singapore and there was this Singapore Malay girl that we talked often to each other. She drank, she smoked and swore like a sailor. She called me a chicken shit when I told her did not want to go any further because she is a Malay. Then she added more fuel to the fire and dared me to go further with her. She asked for it and she got it. We met up quite a few times to do it as she had one heck of a drive.
When I returned I told the then wife we should split up and go separate ways as we fought too often.
After that I decided cheating wasn't I would do again and all the times I did it I was lucky I did not get murdered.