hmmm... very strange, seems like old threads have no notification? Noticed a few times replies to my old threads have no notifications. I only realize this when I checked the threads opened history

Anyways, the last I know is that he has stopped communicating with her for months oledi. He said something like, he stopped calling her and only let her call. And also act disinterested during the call, just let her speak while he listen quietly. Also never arranged to have sex with her anymore, just say busy or family, etc. After some time, the calls gets lesser and lesser and then just stopped. Whether this is permanent or not dunno lah, but seems like he managed to escape this time, hopefully lah.

So yeah, I oso fark him a bit la, "you damn lucky la this time, what if this shit blew up and goes to your family?"   He gave that stupid apologetic smile and couldn't say anything. "Still wanna play until liddis or not" I asked him, and he said something like, the sex was great, wet n juicy n wild, but ultimately not worth the constant stress and fear if tinder girl might blow things up to the whole world and his family finding out. If only she knows the boundaries of what a secret affair means and kept everything quietly, only communicate and meet up for sex and nothing else, none of those bf/gf/family/outings stuff, then they would not hv ended up like this   

Told him that long time ago lor when he first told me this. I was also like "wtf u doing man?  " at the same time

Been thru 3 times in my 20 years marriage
All 3 are very good girl, good career, very proper.
All 3 wild in bed. You would not know they are wild in bed.
The wild came only after months of affair😅😅 my naughtiness is contagious perhaps.

The first one cut her hand, very very very bad break up

The second one shared our story to her mom. Her mom ban kaw kaw. Still keep in touch once in a while. I hurt her mum and her badly.

The third one still running, this one young and dangerous, yes, we can sex for a day. Sex eat bath sex eat bath sex eat bath.

This kind relationship can be very exhausting.
But yeahhhh, the sex >>>>>>> anything tangible in life (something money really cant buy)

But, if breaking up, please prepare as much as money as possible.
Free always more expensive. Thats the least he can do btw.

I know saint peter wont call my name. 😈

haha hopefully no lor. Childhood friend leh, jelly like hell he gets to experience wild stuff like this, yet sux to see him shitbrix trying to end it. Hopefully this really ends and he learns his lesson don't poke into cray cray types