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Serious Married but am deprived of body pleasures, Seriously need opinions

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ymc2303	May 23 2019, 01:35 PM Return to original view \| Post #1
On my way Junior Member 592 posts Joined: Oct 2009 From: Kuala Lumpur	» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « QUOTE(Ronan.The.Accuser @ May 23 2019, 12:48 PM) Hello Lowyat forumers, Am new here but been following several discussions on this sub folder. Finally got my guts to register and post here. Here's my dilemma and hope I can get some serious advises or opinions. Am married for about 10 years with 2 beautiful children. My wife is a housewife and I'm the only breadwinner in the family. Not saying I earn like Lim Goh Tong's family but we make do with what we have. Now, the problem is this. She had never been very into sexual relation. Somewhat can say that you can classify her as a 'nun'? I think the only time she wants it is when she knows my previous gfs are all on the 'wild' side. Now after many years of marriage, she kinda toned down by a lot! Maybe once in a month or 2 months!? Now, before anyone says that she's tired, blah blah blah... Hey, so am I! Every time it's me who needs to do more 'work' and foreplay whereas she's As for me, I'm still very active in this area whereas my other half is NOT! Ok ok, life is not about body pleasures and more on love etc etc, but c'mon, I love her and that's why I want to do it with her. If I don't, might as well I do it with others! Arghhhh, am suffering and angry now. Dunno what to do? Everytime, I need to remind myself that it's MY PROBLEM and not HERS!!!! BUT C'MON, why everytime I need to be the PROBLEM!!!! I don't know if many husbands feel the same here. But it's to share what I'm facing now. both of you should engage therapist in this field. there is no shame if one of you are having issue regarding sexual obligation towards one another. but kudos to TS that doesn't resort to eating out as a problem solver.
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ymc2303	May 23 2019, 04:06 PM Return to original view \| Post #2
On my way Junior Member 592 posts Joined: Oct 2009 From: Kuala Lumpur	QUOTE(Ronan.The.Accuser @ May 23 2019, 03:40 PM) The word is "TRYING" bro... trying very very hard not to get tempted. Thanks for the advise but I actually asked her whether she wants to go for therapist but she is in denial. No point if that person is always in denial. My friends like to use this phase. The problem is I don't mind eating "nasi lemak" every day but if I only eat once in 1 or 2 month then How la bro? Watch jav, tfk etc, might as well don't get married and commitment etc. Can live freely! It seems like this is a common problem among married men. Why is it like this after marriage!?? WOMEN OF LOWYAT. pls explain!!! You don't go asking for it la bro. Just do the foul play effort which I do 9.99/10. TIRED!!! but the way you described, trying seems not going anywhere. if she kept her denial mode on, the relationship will have a stem of unresolved issue, in your case, denied sexual pleasure by your spouse. if this is not top priority, i'd suggest you to find alternative method equivalent to physical pleasure that you lacked. maybe get a hobby, travel or even any gathering.. but long down the road, its still will bottleneck in the end.
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