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Serious Married but am deprived of body pleasures, Seriously need opinions

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JZenith
post May 23 2019, 03:20 PM

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QUOTE(Ronan.The.Accuser @ May 23 2019, 12:48 PM)
Hello Lowyat forumers,

Am new here but been following several discussions on this sub folder. Finally got my guts to register and post here.

Here's my dilemma and hope I can get some serious advises or opinions.

Am married for about 10 years with 2 beautiful children. My wife is a housewife and I'm the only breadwinner in the family. Not saying I earn like Lim Goh Tong's family but we make do with what we have.

Now, the problem is this. She had never been very into sexual relation. Somewhat can say that you can classify her as a 'nun'? I think the only time she wants it is when she knows my previous gfs are all on the 'wild' side. Now after many years of marriage, she kinda toned down by a lot! Maybe once in a month or 2 months!? Now, before anyone says that she's tired, blah blah blah... Hey, so am I! Every time it's me who needs to do more 'work' and foreplay whereas she's  doh.gif

As for me, I'm still very active in this area whereas my other half is NOT!

Ok ok, life is not about body pleasures and more on love etc etc, but c'mon, I love her and that's why I want to do it with her. If I don't, might as well I do it with others!

Arghhhh, am suffering and angry now. Dunno what to do? Everytime, I need to remind myself that it's MY PROBLEM and not HERS!!!! BUT C'MON, why everytime I need to be the PROBLEM!!!!

I don't know if many husbands feel the same here. But it's to share what I'm facing now.  rclxub.gif
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i feel you bro, you're not alone.
70% of time i watch jav and settle.
sometime got extra budget then go massage + bj.. starting feel guilty but as long as i know i still love her..

JZenith
post May 23 2019, 03:49 PM

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QUOTE(Ronan.The.Accuser @ May 23 2019, 03:40 PM)
The word is "TRYING" bro... trying very very hard not to get tempted.  bangwall.gif  bangwall.gif  bangwall.gif Thanks for the advise but I actually asked her whether she wants to go for therapist but she is in denial. No point if that person is always in denial.
My friends like to use this phase. The problem is I don't mind eating "nasi lemak" every day but if I only eat once in 1 or 2 month then  rclxub.gif
How la bro? Watch jav, tfk etc, might as well don't get married and commitment etc. Can live freely!

It seems like this is a common problem among married men. Why is it like this after marriage!?? WOMEN OF LOWYAT. pls explain!!!
You don't go asking for it la bro. Just do the foul play effort which I do 9.99/10. TIRED!!!
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if this issue really matters you then perhaps you need to bring it up and talk to her.. like seriously matter.. if not then breakup is the way.
might be hilarious for some people to breakup due to no sex life, but sex do help 80% of the relationship according to a study.
or you might need to look for someone who can match your sex drive..

i talked with gf before on this. from once in two weeks now change to twice per week or so, talked nicely..
give a step back to each other..

you can dont get married and live freely, but you will reach a phase where you need someone to talk to, discuss and go through together.

 

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