QUOTE(MasterConfucion @ May 24 2019, 03:07 PM)
yes that is why i dilemma. one hand is as u said to be comfortable with the purchase and leaning to that after all the advice. also the maintenance cost will be much more than the car price. but on another hand i’m still young if i don’t make the purchase now i don’t think i will make it when i’m older due to more things to worry about. also seen how some of ppl i know just suddenly have big issue when they old time and didn’t actually enjoy their life when they young. means they never actually live their life before. when u do stupid things during young time is more forgivable than do stupid things when u r older and society not so lenient to u
Well... we're not going to topics that are outside of that to buying car, but since this is "serious kopitiam", I can share my view.
- I've bought some fancy cars also, it was fun for about a year, then the fun factor wears off. At that point you'll only be thinking about "upgrading"
- It's ok to do stupid things while young, but not ok to do stupid things that you'll pay for when you're older (e.g. getting in jail)
- Young people (i'm saying young people as in those half my age, i.e in their 20's) typically do not know what it is in life that is enjoyable. I know I didn't when I was younger. I only thought I will enjoy the things other people tell me are enjoyable. You need to find out for yourself whether or not you like those things. E.g. clubbing, scuba diving, travelling, etc. Over time, I realize I don't really like some of the things other people like, and after a while, those things are meaningless to me. Is driving a nice car something that you like, or something that other people tell you that you will like? What does it mean to you?
It's a boring thing to think about, because when it comes to buying a nice car, all we can think about is how awesome it will be to get behind that steering wheel, feeling the leather seat, flooring that gas pedal, enjoying the admiration from friends and strangers alike. That too has its value, if you think it will last for years and years until you replace that car. Once that is over, and when looked back, all I can think of when I see another fancy car was "been there, done that".