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TSjetblast
post Feb 2 2019, 04:37 PM, updated 7y ago

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I genuinely want to ask a question to my Muslims friends. Just got back from middle east and noticed no children there seem to wear tudung but in Malaysia a lot of little girls wear tudung. I asked one of my friends and he told me actually they only need to wear after puberty. Is this true?
Genuine answers please.


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post Feb 2 2019, 04:39 PM

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Ya true
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post Feb 2 2019, 04:40 PM

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Yes

But melentur buluh biar drpd rebung
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post Feb 2 2019, 04:40 PM

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Yea lor but when they become adult terus kena burka and niqab. Ninja style.

At least malay muslim women only obligated to wear hijab in this country. Jeans/ shirts etc can still wear.

The rationale behind making super young girls wear hijab from that tender age is to make them used to it earlier on. The older they get when they first start the more constricting and uncomfortable it is.
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post Feb 2 2019, 04:41 PM

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i also have question

why in arab the tudung there is like dementor, but in lesser arab like iran its just shawl like datin wrap can show hair?

also which tudung is correct? is wear tudung n short sleeve shirt or tudung with tight t shirt is ok? if ok den why bother wear tudung big2?

not hot meh tudung? how u cope with the heat? hair not smells??

is tudung can choose wan wear anot? if must wear y queens in islam country no need wear? like msia queen or arab queen no need wear?

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post Feb 2 2019, 04:41 PM

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Yes true
But many young parent teach their kids or their kids are asking to wear the tudung
So far my 4 years old niece don’t like tudung
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post Feb 2 2019, 04:44 PM

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a number of my awek frenz dun actually want to wear but they have to wear it bcoz of pipul around them expect them to wear lulz

tudung is more of a cultural thing in malaysia

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post Feb 2 2019, 04:50 PM

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QUOTE(AgogoLatoto @ Feb 2 2019, 04:41 PM)
i also have question

why in arab the tudung there is like dementor, but in lesser arab like iran its just shawl like datin wrap can show hair?

also which tudung is correct? is wear tudung n short sleeve shirt or tudung with tight t shirt is ok? if ok den why bother wear tudung big2?

not hot meh tudung? how u cope with the heat? hair not smells??

is tudung can choose wan wear anot? if must wear y queens in islam country no need wear? like msia queen or arab queen no need wear?
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1. Their own variations which are influenced by tribal culture and climate.

2. The correct "tudung" if you wanna be technical is a covering that covers the whole chest, labuh style and arms until the wrists. The Arabs are the strictest and go full ninja style where ankles aren't even shown. Anything worn that is tight or body hugging does not qualify and defeats the purpose of the hijab. In fact attractive makeup or perfume/scents is not even allowed if you follow the rules of hijab strictly.

Women are not supposed to exist in any discernible physical shape or form in a strict Islamic society. Hence the shapeless "trash bags" the Arabs make their women wear in public in Saudi Arabia for example.

3. The fabric that is used is airy and and has its own ventilation system in place.

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post Feb 2 2019, 04:52 PM

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QUOTE(solarmystic @ Feb 2 2019, 04:50 PM)
3. The fabric that is used is airy and and has its own ventilation system in place.
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wdym gt ventilation system? under tudung gt aircond meh? hmm.gif hmm.gif
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post Feb 2 2019, 05:00 PM

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QUOTE(butterkijen @ Feb 2 2019, 04:44 PM)
a number of my awek frenz dun actually want to wear but they have to wear it bcoz of pipul around them expect them to wear lulz

tudung is more of a cultural thing in malaysia
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Most of your awek frens maybe the liberal type. Many awek wear tudung but piap2 more than amoi lol (based on Tumblr reasearch).

In my personal view, I would say 50% of awek in Msia really want to wear tudung because of Islamic teaching, and another 50% maybe wear just to avoid criticism or just hypocrite.
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QUOTE(rd33 @ Feb 2 2019, 05:00 PM)
Most of your awek frens maybe the liberal type. Many awek wear tudung but piap2 more than amoi lol (based on Tumblr reasearch).

In my personal view, I would say 50% of awek in Msia really want to wear tudung because of Islamic teaching, and another 50% maybe wear just to avoid criticism or just hypocrite.
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post Feb 2 2019, 05:15 PM

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You know
Hair pulling is hurting

So we endup using tudung less pain. But it work
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post Feb 2 2019, 05:24 PM

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Because teaching them early is easier.
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post Feb 2 2019, 05:27 PM

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I also want to ask if it will cause brain damage to children due to too hot. Our country is hot country.
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post Feb 2 2019, 05:32 PM

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QUOTE(rd33 @ Feb 2 2019, 05:00 PM)
Most of your awek frens maybe the liberal type. Many awek wear tudung but piap2 more than amoi lol (based on Tumblr reasearch).

In my personal view, I would say 50% of awek in Msia really want to wear tudung because of Islamic teaching, and another 50% maybe wear just to avoid criticism or just hypocrite.
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Kek.. U must be Professor im tumblr research
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post Feb 2 2019, 05:32 PM

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QUOTE(AgogoLatoto @ Feb 2 2019, 04:41 PM)
i also have question

why in arab the tudung there is like dementor, but in lesser arab like iran its just shawl like datin wrap can show hair?

also which tudung is correct? is wear tudung n short sleeve shirt or tudung with tight t shirt is ok? if ok den why bother wear tudung big2?

not hot meh tudung? how u cope with the heat? hair not smells??

is tudung can choose wan wear anot? if must wear y queens in islam country no need wear? like msia queen or arab queen no need wear?
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They say hell fire is hotter. So up to you want hot now or burn later.
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post Feb 2 2019, 05:41 PM

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Because girls if free hair since young, most likely free hair when growing up. Very hard to suddenly make them wear tudung once they grow up. In fact they will color2 their hair rebonding or perm hair instead. That's why most religious moms train since young
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post Feb 2 2019, 05:43 PM

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Gua yang pakai, ko yang panas
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post Feb 2 2019, 05:43 PM

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Thanks for all the answers but it doesn't explain why middle east children don't wear but Malaysian do?
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post Feb 2 2019, 05:45 PM

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Tudung in Malaysia is a UUUggeee business !

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