Sure can get pregnant again even just after 2 months of giving birth. That's not the point. Point is it is better to let the mother 'heal' up the body properly before considering of going through another cycle of pregnancy. Your wife is not baby making machine so please be considerate to your wife.

Is your mummy late 30s having you?

after seeing what my wife have to go through with our 1st born, not sure if i wanted 2nd one.

simply put, she's kinda emotional when baby cried non-stop and she dunno what or how she can do to make him stop crying; already fed, burped, changed diaper due to pee/poo.

eventho baby's manageable now since already 4 mths, the thought of seeing my wife go through that stage..not sure if it's worth it.

simply put, i rather not having a 2nd baby than risking the possibility of my wife hving depression

my opinion, 2 ~ 3 year in between will be the best.

Timing is very important (for sibling relationship + time adjustment + personal time ...etc)

One of my brother older than me 12 years, when I went to primary school, he aldy prepare to uni. So our relationship is not so close, but my another brother younger than me 2 years, we are very close and take care of each other (of coz sometime will fight when we were young, but sweet memories now )

Then, my elder brother has their 2nd child right after my 1st niece (means 1 year older than 2nd niece) ... I can still remember the hard time taking care of 2 babies especially midnight, the whole family woke up to take care of them and everyone lack of sleep