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SUStiestoycc
post Sep 20 2018, 10:59 PM, updated 8y ago

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Hi guys, my wife and I have been discussing about starting a family, so we would like to find out more about any good doctors or gynaecologist recommendation in KL?

What about hospitals then? What are the good hospitals for labour?

And lastly, recommendation for confinement centres.

Thank you!
SUStiestoycc
post Sep 22 2018, 12:24 PM

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QUOTE(achong09 @ Sep 22 2018, 10:40 AM)
Hi
Do you both prefer female or male gynae?
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Either is fine for us. Male or female is okay.
SUStiestoycc
post Sep 24 2018, 09:53 PM

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QUOTE(idobez @ Sep 24 2018, 04:04 PM)
Assuming both of you not having any problem, you do not need to find any gynae until your wife if officially pregnant. As per labour is concern, it depends on your budget.
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Do couples do any test or checkup before trying to get pregnant?

what is average price for C-section and normal birth?
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post Sep 25 2018, 05:11 PM

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QUOTE(lowlowc @ Sep 25 2018, 12:49 AM)
I remember there's pre-marriage testings that includes Thalessemia, HIV etc.
But honestly, most of us don't do that, unless you suspect possibility of HIV, STI etc.

If you're talking about fertility screening, just try to conceive and if 6 months with no result, only then consult doctor about fertility. 6 months but also depends on age, whether can both still afford to wait? If you are both young, give yourself a year.
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Oh... I guess I received wrong information then... because I am used to the thought of having a test to check if our bloods are "close" (as in family related or something) so as to not cause inbred or something.

We are both approaching 30, that is considered as old, right? hahah


QUOTE(coca^cola @ Sep 25 2018, 08:43 AM)
Yes for both us, we want to know we both are healthy condition. And we ask doctor for some vitamins to take.
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Yea, that's one of the things that we are worried about also.


QUOTE(idobez @ Sep 25 2018, 11:39 AM)
Yes you can do preliminary screening if have any concern. You may try to conceive naturally for at least 1 year before seeking help should it does not work.

As per C-section, i do not know the cost as i deliver naturally for both times. Much much cheaper, i can vouch to that.
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Hmmm... how much was the natural delivery, if you don't mind me asking? and at which hospital?
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post Sep 27 2018, 03:22 PM

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QUOTE(idobez @ Sep 26 2018, 11:12 AM)
I had my delivery in government hospital. Cost less than RM100 for both times, normal delivery. 3rd class ward. Warded 1 night (first born) and 2 nights (second born) at Hospital Selayang.
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how was your experience at Hospital Selayang? Is it good?


QUOTE(lowlowc @ Sep 26 2018, 02:43 PM)
Na da... 30 yo is not old, considered just nice. Give yourself a year before going for extensive fertility test. There's many level in fertility test and can come up to a few thousands (or more) for overall checking. Start with sperm count test which is the cheapest.

Most importantly... both of you don't feel stressful about trying for baby. Relax.
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Woa! Few thousands O.O that's scary hmmm...

yea, want to have a baby seems like a big and scary thing though. hahaha


QUOTE(coca^cola @ Sep 26 2018, 07:06 PM)
Both of us are nearly 40 that considered old and high risk. We kena marah by gynae when he ask us why wait so late to conceived especially when he get to know we married more than 15years ago 😬 due to old age and placenta previa we opt for c section.
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aiks... hahaha, we have been married for 2 years and have decided it is time. already enjoy enough haha

 

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