QUOTE(sangterap @ May 28 2007, 05:02 PM)
if need to answer the 4 wives questions...
why must have mistresses in the first place?
if not gatal then be faithful...life is not all about sex and wives only.....
hmmmmmmm.....
so if it is a must to have 4 wives rather than mistresses, is it advocating that must have lotsa sex?
it is very unfair to post the question. Better to have 4 wives or mistresses does not justify anything.....
at the end of the day it is like blackmailing...if u dun let me marry 4, i go have 4 mistress.....
so no matter must have 4 wives already....
sorry if i misunderstand ur question.....
a muslim man can only have more than 1 wife (not necessarily 4) if he is capable of being equal... this is the option that been given to them to avoid any 'improper' relationship... and that comes with HUGE responsibilty... even they are allowed to do so... there so many rules and regulation that need to be followed... otherwise it's a BIG SINS... that's why not every man is able to have more than 1 wife...
i admit that sometimes there are few men are taking advantage of this... and some is still cheating even have more than 1 wife... but human is human right... most of them tend to break the rules... that's why GOD created heaven and hell...
p/s: sorry if i hurt anybody's feeling here... please don't prolong this issue anymore... if got any questions feel free to pm me... this is not the right forum...
This post has been edited by arraille: May 28 2007, 06:05 PM