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How long it takes you to ejaculate? , survey on men’s health issues
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TSAmideva
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Jul 20 2018, 01:49 PM, updated 7y ago
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Whether you’re doing it alone (masturbate) or with a partner (Sex), how long can you last till it ejaculates? It should be from time it hardens (masturbation), or from time of penetration (sex). The intention of this survey is to see where you fall under - i.e. do you have premature ejaculation or ... the opposite- you unable to cum. Both are signs of some health issues.
Do take this poll seriously. Thank you.
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ListenToTheWind
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Jul 20 2018, 02:00 PM
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The answer is very subjective. I can cum below 5 minutes if I'm doing it alone and I do it in a fast pace manner. If I didn't take the fast route, then it will take more than 5 minutes to cum. So far I still didn't manage to cum yet during intercourse. I prolly did it wrong.
So should I vote base on the fastest record I ejaculate?
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TSAmideva
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Jul 20 2018, 02:12 PM
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QUOTE(ListenToTheWind @ Jul 20 2018, 02:00 PM) The answer is very subjective. I can cum below 5 minutes if I'm doing it alone and I do it in a fast pace manner. If I didn't take the fast route, then it will take more than 5 minutes to cum. So far I still didn't manage to cum yet during intercourse. I prolly did it wrong. So should I vote base on the fastest record I ejaculate? Haha... you probably not interested in your partner. Take the statistical “mode”. Hope you understand statistics. 😜 If not sure, just take your average handjob. This post has been edited by Amideva: Jul 20 2018, 02:19 PM
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Nikov
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Jul 20 2018, 02:25 PM
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if masturbate alone, sometimes can take up to 20min. (cos the plot thickens  u know..) with partner, 1-3mins.
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TSAmideva
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Jul 20 2018, 03:28 PM
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QUOTE(Nikov @ Jul 20 2018, 02:25 PM) if masturbate alone, sometimes can take up to 20min. (cos the plot thickens  u know..) with partner, 1-3mins. Then you are under 1-3 mins category. Oops. This post has been edited by Amideva: Jul 20 2018, 03:28 PM
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jerm57
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Jul 20 2018, 03:34 PM
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Why is there 2 different conditions? With so many conditional variables, you can't control the accuracy of the answers. You should separate the variable into another set. One for masturbators and one for regular sex.
Even then, the answers may be skewed by intensity of foreplay or other unknown conditions.
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zororo
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Jul 20 2018, 03:38 PM
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It depends.... Sometimes can last longer if want to... Sometimes quickie.... Can cum faster
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tadashi987
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Jul 20 2018, 03:41 PM
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woah this type topic wont got banned?
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teehk_tee
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Jul 20 2018, 03:44 PM
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from the poll, it appears that graph is skewed towards the <15mins section.
really? msians? <15mins?
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SUSnasiputih
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Jul 20 2018, 03:56 PM
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QUOTE(Amideva @ Jul 20 2018, 02:12 PM) Haha... you probably not interested in your partner. Take the statistical “mode”. Hope you understand statistics. 😜 If not sure, just take your average handjob.means the girl is average looking vietmoi?
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ZforZebra
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Jul 20 2018, 03:56 PM
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Post Data Saved! masturbate with boring vid, masturbate with exciting vid, sex with condom, sex without condom, sex after masturbate yesterday, sex without masturbate.
all different timing
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internaldisputes
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Jul 20 2018, 03:57 PM
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A few minutes if I'm masturbating and probably never if I'm having sex.  I think I'm suffering from death grip.
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danieln
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Jul 20 2018, 03:57 PM
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ts confirm is virgin greeny. no idea on the possible variables that might happen.
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Rhetoric
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Jul 20 2018, 03:58 PM
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my stepmom said always finish fast. ive been doing that since kid.
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TSAmideva
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Jul 20 2018, 05:40 PM
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QUOTE(zororo @ Jul 20 2018, 03:38 PM) It depends.... Sometimes can last longer if want to... Sometimes quickie.... Can cum faster Cannot purposely make it come faster. Just continuous normal speed handjob. This post has been edited by Amideva: Jul 20 2018, 05:44 PM
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SmallPenguin
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Jul 20 2018, 05:42 PM
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You want 1 min oso boleh, you want 30 min or even longer like 1 hour oso boleh
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TSAmideva
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Jul 20 2018, 05:42 PM
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QUOTE(teehk_tee @ Jul 20 2018, 03:44 PM) from the poll, it appears that graph is skewed towards the <15mins section. really? msians? <15mins? Are you also in that category? That’s what the purpose of the poll, to find out what’s our average for msian males. Seems like a lot fall in 5-10 mins category. This post has been edited by Amideva: Jul 20 2018, 05:43 PM
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TSAmideva
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Jul 20 2018, 05:45 PM
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QUOTE(internaldisputes @ Jul 20 2018, 03:57 PM) A few minutes if I'm masturbating and probably never if I'm having sex.  I think I'm suffering from death grip. Like that you can enjoy your partner more more lar... sure you happy it didn’t come out. Or, are you physically tired after 30 mins?
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TSAmideva
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Jul 20 2018, 05:48 PM
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QUOTE(jerm57 @ Jul 20 2018, 03:34 PM) Why is there 2 different conditions? With so many conditional variables, you can't control the accuracy of the answers. You should separate the variable into another set. One for masturbators and one for regular sex. Even then, the answers may be skewed by intensity of foreplay or other unknown conditions. This is just a simple poll. I am not doing a phD thesis on this lar..
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TSAmideva
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Jul 20 2018, 05:49 PM
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QUOTE(Rhetoric @ Jul 20 2018, 03:58 PM) my stepmom said always finish fast. ive been doing that since kid. Your stepmom advises you on such boys things? Wow... you don’t feel shy talking to her?
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TSAmideva
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Jul 20 2018, 05:54 PM
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One reason why I posted this poll is also to inform that one Chinese sinseh says (heard from someone) that if we have premature ejaculation, it’s possible that we have problems in our kidneys. He says that when we become older, it may result in urinary issues, e.g. frequent urination.
So we should have our kidneys checked.
This post has been edited by Amideva: Jul 20 2018, 05:55 PM
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Nikov
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Jul 20 2018, 05:56 PM
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QUOTE(Amideva @ Jul 20 2018, 03:28 PM) Then you are under 1-3 mins category. Oops. yea kinda sad haha. maybe cos irresistible figure. but rest awhile can on again
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TSAmideva
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Jul 21 2018, 06:50 AM
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QUOTE(SmallPenguin @ Jul 20 2018, 05:42 PM) You want 1 min oso boleh, you want 30 min or even longer like 1 hour oso boleh For those more than 1 hour, you cannot include stopping thrusting more than a few seconds.
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SUSNew Klang
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Jul 21 2018, 09:38 AM
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30 mins. Longer than that is hard work and tired back although it is more calories burnt. And too much time wasted.
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SmallPenguin
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Jul 21 2018, 10:00 AM
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QUOTE(Amideva @ Jul 21 2018, 06:50 AM) For those more than 1 hour, you cannot include stopping thrusting more than a few seconds. did that lah if u watch uninterested/boring prawn u fap fap fap tak da rasa then feel wan tidur liao if u watch fav punya  ,janji cum very fast
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TSAmideva
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Jul 21 2018, 12:44 PM
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QUOTE(SmallPenguin @ Jul 21 2018, 10:00 AM) did that lah if u watch uninterested/boring prawn u fap fap fap tak da rasa then feel wan tidur liao if u watch fav punya  ,janji cum very fast Agree with you on the watching video bit. But the poll is generally without additional stimulus. Just do by hand or with partner. I dun believe anyone can trust continuously for one hour. Serious? Even 30mins tired already lor... can meh? Of course if you include 3-5 mins in between stop to rest or kissing or play nipple, etc etc... then 1 hour of course can lar. This post has been edited by Amideva: Jul 21 2018, 12:46 PM
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SmallPenguin
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Jul 21 2018, 02:14 PM
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QUOTE(Amideva @ Jul 21 2018, 12:44 PM) Agree with you on the watching video bit. But the poll is generally without additional stimulus. Just do by hand or with partner. I dun believe anyone can trust continuously for one hour. Serious? Even 30mins tired already lor... can meh? Of course if you include 3-5 mins in between stop to rest or kissing or play nipple, etc etc... then 1 hour of course can lar. i mean masturbate lah i tried before lah fap fap fap until boring my hand also tired d see time aiya so late alr, terus search back fav prawn and hgnnng
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TSAmideva
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Jul 22 2018, 08:14 AM
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QUOTE(Nikov @ Jul 20 2018, 05:56 PM) yea kinda sad haha. maybe cos irresistible figure. but rest awhile can on again That doesn’t solve your problem. You must seek treatment for your premature ejaculation.
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Nikov
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Jul 22 2018, 10:47 PM
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QUOTE(Amideva @ Jul 22 2018, 08:14 AM) That doesn’t solve your problem. You must seek treatment for your premature ejaculation. do u have any recommendation for a good urologist(?) it is kind of frustrating at times.
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TSAmideva
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Jul 25 2018, 12:35 AM
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QUOTE(Nikov @ Jul 22 2018, 10:47 PM) do u have any recommendation for a good urologist(?) it is kind of frustrating at times. I hv not personally been treated by urologist for that condition. Sorry. But I know there are people who have been to Chinese medical treatments. They usually try to strengthen the kidneys, liver etc... but traditional treatment usually take longer time. Need to go regularly for long periods of time. This is due to the chinese medicine is not like western medicine. It’s more holistic. This post has been edited by Amideva: Jul 25 2018, 12:37 AM
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haklung
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Jul 26 2018, 12:49 AM
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Can also use some numbing spray in the meantime to de-sensitise the organ. Any spray containing lidocaine. Don't consume it! Just external application.
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TSAmideva
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Jul 28 2018, 10:46 AM
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QUOTE(haklung @ Jul 26 2018, 12:49 AM) Can also use some numbing spray in the meantime to de-sensitise the organ. Any spray containing lidocaine. Don't consume it! Just external application. Numbing the head is considered cheating. Haha... Anyway, from some comments earlier, why is it that it achieves orgasm faster if do by hand?
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SUSRyuGW90
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Aug 1 2018, 11:16 PM
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Doing with partner and ownself is different
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TSAmideva
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Aug 5 2018, 07:10 AM
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Also, the possibility of over-estimating the duration is higher than under-estimating. That’s especially for those who did not use a watch or clock to check your actual timing. Sometimes we think 10 mins have gone by, but it’s actually only 5 mins. So, I think a lot more people actually fall under a lower range of timing.
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TSAmideva
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Apr 9 2019, 09:02 AM
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Just an update. I read one tcm article that says anything 5 mins and below is considered as premature. From our poll, it means about 25% of people got PE. Is this surprising?
Anyway from my research, one man managed to increase his timing from max 5 mins to min 30 mins, just trusting (not hand job). Not sure why usually handjobs cum faster?? Haha ... anyway good for this guy but didn’t probe much on treatment. He’s taking some TCM treatment.
This post has been edited by Amideva: Apr 9 2019, 09:28 AM
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