To be honest, after sharing a lot, I feel kinda disappointed that people are confined to conventional ways of thinking.

Just one topic like this (on relationship strategy), you guys already can't take it.

All I can say is, if you do things the ordinary ways, you get ordinary results that most people get too. You are no different from them. Just ordinary, common and plain, whether in life, in career and in relationship.

I won't entertain any comments anymore; only intelligent questions. Coz whatever you write here doesn't affect my relationship and my future. I am still with the same man, enjoy the same fruits of success due to my hard work, living my relaxing life and going to travel a lot, and will have more good things to come.

Not writing all these to make you envy, okay? What's the point of making online strangers getting jealous? So that I feel good about myself?

With all that I have, I'm already happy in my life. I don't need your jealousy to make me happier, coz if I'm that type of person, I won't be taking my time to write about relationship advice and strategy in Cupid Corner. Heck, I'm not even paid by LYN to write, so why should I waste my time here entertaining all sorts of people & crappy stuffs?

I'm merely sharing how to do it (using my own walk-the-talk examples). If you ladies think it works, try it out. Otherwise, go and Google your own info, do your research and studies, and test out one by one. 

& If you men can't take it, well, this thread is for women from the beginning, so your comments are actually irrelevant. Whether you like it or not, there are lots of books out there, for women, to teach them how to attract different types of men. That's the reality. You don't believe? Go do a search in Amazon.com. Then go & protest to these authors, one by one. Dare you to do it.

If your pursuits are highly successful, your relationship is great, and your marriage is blissful and perfect, go ahead and share how you do it. Otherwise, only know how to comment negatively and offensively, but can't even contribute some inspiring/ useful ideas... better to shut up then. The more venom you spit online, the more bitter you are inside. That's just who you are and what you have in you.

Don't like what I say here? Then prove it otherwise, by starting another thread, that contributes to knowledge in relationship, so that people can also learn from your experience.

He's ISTJ; I'm INFJ.

He's the systematic and organised type, cool & calm, kinda stoic, macho & chauvinistic type. Honestly, I felt intimidated when I first met him. You know, like there are some males, when you first meet them, you can feel their aura (serious, demand respect).

I'm more of  ... ok, difficult to define INFJ, but when you meet an INFJ, you'd find that they are so damn odd/weird/unusual/contradictory/from another planet, coz they are very rare (<1% of the population), and they are multi-faceted and multi-layered human beings.

What he thinks of me? Make him pening kepala. Feels like "strangling" me sometimes, he says.  hahaha

Nice meeting you. ^^ Almost similar, but you're a P. Must find out how different that one letter makes. 

Hahaha...ah well, INFJ can be kinda "annoying", but they are also interesting (unpredictable mah~~).