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 How to Marry a Rich Man, for ladies

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jonlee
post Jul 27 2018, 05:11 PM

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QUOTE(koolspyda @ Jul 27 2018, 03:22 PM)
It's not a long post. It's enlightening to have views
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post Jul 27 2018, 05:13 PM

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QUOTE(borgeouisbella @ Jul 27 2018, 03:18 PM)
I'm a young woman, currently 27 years old, who probably share some of the qualities TS proclaims to have, particularly in

1. achievement - owned 2 houses by 26 years old
2. career - earning close to RM10k a month working in the IT industry with a day job and freelance projects (probably not as successful as TS since she earns in SGD)
3. group of friends - have more male friends than female friends, mainly due to the type of industry I work in and the fact that I share more interests in tech with them
4. suffered from acne - went for treatments that costs less than RM10k because my acne was probably not as severe as TS
5. middle-income family - my family owns several businesses, so I had a fairly middle-income upbringing who had their fair share of struggles in poverty (own businesses are fairly unstable, I'm sure many businessmen here can attest to that)
6. excellent command of english - raised in an english speaking environment, but went to chinese schools because my parents believed that its imperative for children to know as many languages as possible

I also have a loving fiancé, due to marry in a few more weeks. My fiancé is not a rich man, he doesn't own a single property or car (till recently), and he is in his mid-30s. It is not that he is not a driven man; he is an intellectual, but he isn't very smart when it comes to managing his finances. But, what he cannot provide for me in monetary value, he provides in other ways the best he knows how to. It's endearing to see a man try his best to give you the best he can based on whatever limited resources he has. It also shows the most vulnerable and sincerest part of a man that is becoming so scarce these days, and that is why I'm marrying him smile.gif

Therefore, not all "glamorous, beautiful and successful" women (in TS own words) have a mindset like TS. Some of us do appreciate genuinely sincere man who are not rich.

Also, I know of many women who shares similar qualities like TS (and myself), who do not share TS mindset. Mainly because we do not like to ask for things, because it's demeaning to our own ego (Yes, women who are "glamorous, beautiful and successful" have their own ego and pride too), to have to rely on a man to get something we want. Instead, we know we are resourceful and capable enough to get the things we want through our own means. There is true satisfaction in that wink.gif

Sorry for the long post. Sekian.

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Your fiance is a lucky man. After almost twenty pages your post made me believe that there is still true love. Thanks


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