wow this thread really struck me as I just got an advice to get a rich man..haha

personally i would avoid rich man. I think the perfect partner would be someone not rich but try his best to be one. It doesnt matter if he succeed or not but I think its great for a man to be willing to do that..i really dont mind to keep living in a low cost house, being unable to buy expensive shoes n bags, or clothes.

I feel like the joy of buying those things are there when I rarely able to buy it. I think if i cn just buy them with a snap of a finger is just doesnt have any joy in it at all, knowing myself very well I might also take things fr granted and my attitude will screw up.

My family used to be rich, anything I want, they buy fr me. I was such a terrible kid last time until i realized that when my family was in chaos, I am such a selfish person all these while, so i changed my habit, and keep challenging myself.

Me being me who loves watching movie that shows girl go out with rich man, having paradise life, I thought of that last time and I did went out with some rich guys. Personally speaking, i cant relate to anything they say, and they spoil me that i feel like im gonna be a worse person if i keep hanging out with them. So i stopped.

That of course doesnt mean poor guys are the best, of course no.
There are poor guys who got attitude as well, surprisingly haha

what i found in some poor guys is that they always feel pessimistic n say "nah, im comfortable being this way"
It shows that they are just plain lazy and not willing to be a better person in general. I went out with that kind of person last time, and I just feel like me as a person who keep wanting to be better, lonely and unmotivated.

So yeah, i think its nice to see people not from their bank account, house n cars, but rather on their mindset and attitude.