I feel you. That's why the whole post don't make me feel that she already successfully being rich, probably in the process to go in only (probably toward upper mid level). As the way she commented some post that involve 5figures, sounds like that is a high amount for her.

Yes, if you feel you are rich. You are. If you feel you are not, you are not. It all depends on your lifestyle and how you fund it.
But if 1 night you suddenly feel like flying to somewhere just to have a breakfast, and holaa.. without 2nd thought, you are there next morning. And fly back right after that. Some ppl may see this is crazy, but I see this is just rich. Rich to the extend that you can do crazy stuff. I have an ex-colleague did that. She was my Finance Manager who married a rich man. I did that too.. but under the expense of company.. when boss say "lets have breakfast tomorrow.." I'll just have to fly over .. and my work for tat day other than fly + breakfast with boss.. zero production . That's the pain of being someone who domicile in a country that different from your peers.

Looking at your annual (probably include bonus, right). Happy for you as this is consider a very (still) comfortable amount in Malaysia, provided that you don't spend lavish holidays. And how many ppl are under your care that they actually have to share your hard earn money (i.e. family). My household is small (just 3), and blessed that my hubby bring nett pay home as his car, mobile, and most of the time even his lunch being paid. When zero expense vs income.. he is rich. Especially his wife is self-finance and we already done paid our properties. Problem is.. similar like you.. we don't feel rich. I only feel blessed as we started early that come to this days.. everything already in order.. nothing to be proud of at all.