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 How to Marry a Rich Man, for ladies

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Drian
post Jul 20 2018, 09:31 PM

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I don't know why you guys are so upset over her statements. It's her right , it's her choice to do whatever she wants. Women do go for rich guys, it's just they are not expressed explicitly like her.

However the fact that since she mentioned that the relationship is transactional, it would imply that Ralna cannot complain and whine about the husband if the husband found someone prettier and better than her in the future. In her own words , if she becomes a liability and no longer in the game , then it is justified for her husband to dump her and she cannot complain about it.

You guys are getting too emotional. Her views actually benefit rich playboys cause now their wives cannot complain if the husbands find someone better and prettier than her.

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post Jul 27 2018, 09:55 AM

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I'm actually ok with her opinion.

She admits that she does go for money and she also agree that the husband can dump her anytime/have another mistress if she is old. In another words, she cannot complain or whine or gain sympathy when her husband have an affair or dump her for someone else. At least she's not being a hypocrite.


There are some women here on the other hand who has double standards, where they demand for the right to choose the type of guy that they want and they can dump the guy if they are not up to the standards, but then chastise guys who dump girls. In another words these girls are saying "we girls can choose who we like and dump them if they are not up to standard but you guys cannot do the same to girls or else we will label you as jerks/playboy."








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post Jul 27 2018, 09:59 AM

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QUOTE(sweet_pez @ Jul 26 2018, 07:32 PM)
I dont know how people misinterpret my statement. Maybe TLDR and only see what they want to see.

To make it short: why do people here care or judge so much what TS do? None of you are her fiancee. Even if she's out to destroy her own life, its her choice. Who are us, who know nuts about someone, actually judge and pass statements?

Regardless of gender, my opinion on the above stands.

Thus dont quote me out of context. What I commented, are MY opinion. Biased, not biased - its up to the person who read it to judge. And these judgments are also subjected to personal bias (who reads them).

So comments that are not related to the post will be removed - the same applicable to TS and all here wink.gif adios.
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It started because you warned them on their trolling, but now that they feel TS is doing the same, you did not warn her, and therefore showed biasness. It's less about your opinion on her.



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post Jul 27 2018, 12:22 PM

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QUOTE(koolspyda @ Jul 27 2018, 12:09 PM)
Does those not in favour treatened/intimidated by TS (her story) or her message/nerrative about women, working women possibly these days have chosen, are more selective and place, upped their criterias?

I care not much of TS background, her background story but rather find some fascinating insights on those less 'submissive ladies'.

I don't need people to brand me as ohh here's a clueless man, why is he even here. thank you very much, I'm always fascinated of fair maidens, ladies, independent women possiblity...

I hope it's alright to move on than to sidetrack the issue
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It is not these days, it already has been happening a long time ago. Women would always find someone richer than them, and that is their right.
It's just that since they are working now, so naturally the "wealth criteria" would also naturally increase.

What I can't stand is, when they are no longer pretty or with bad attitude and all, if the guy dumps them, they get angry at the guy. They themselves won't settle for less BUT they expect the guys to be loyal to them even though her attractiveness has dropped. It's like they want to demand from the guys, but they don't allow the guys to demand anything form them.






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post Jul 27 2018, 01:25 PM

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QUOTE(koolspyda @ Jul 27 2018, 12:59 PM)
YOU MEAN GUYS DROPPED LADIES/WIFES WHEN THEY AGED, BECOME LESS ATTRACTIVE?

is even A reason? a criteria?  You point ? What happened to "in sickness and health etc..."

Campak when the goods become weary and less attractive, time for new curvy sweet younglings ? I'm sorry but the point illustrated appears to suggest.

Just clarifying.
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Yes, if the girl behaves like in TS case wants to demand, she has to provide, and if she no longer can provide , the guy has the right to dump the woman.
In TS case, it's a transactional process and therefore cannot complain about it.

So , yes women who think like TS has every right to demand for rich guys but since it is transactional ,the rich guy can also demand the same from her.
If the guy goes poor of course, then she can dump him and vice versa.








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post Jul 27 2018, 01:27 PM

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You guys instead of exposing her, if you're smart enough , you use her own game/mindset/thought-process against her.


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post Aug 3 2018, 10:07 AM

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QUOTE(WindofChaos @ Aug 2 2018, 01:33 PM)
Something to think about

Josephine Pan, the 45-year-old Shanghai CEO of FCB, an advertising firm. In a traditional society like China's, she says, men are intimidated by her title.

"They don't want a female CEO as a girlfriend or wife," says Pan. "Maybe they feel it's a big threat to them. I'm not an arrogant person, like all the time showing off my title. I keep it very low profile. But no matter how low of a profile you keep, you keep intimidating them."

https://www.npr.org/2018/07/31/634048279/ch...y-single-longer
Another one:

Dai Xuan, 30, who works as the editor of a luxury magazine in Shanghai — and is pictured at the helm of a private jet — says the reason why she hasn't married yet is economic. She says she loves her job and she makes more than enough to support herself, which has made her pickier about dating.
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There was a post here back then with similar argument .

Women are blaming men for being intimidated by her title, but then she never blame herself for "rejecting men who are not intimidated by her title" or "rejecting men who are not up to her standards". It's women themselves that behave in a way that show that they would not settle for less and then blame the guys for not pursuing her.



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