Bf cheating. Need someone to talk to 
Jun 26 2018, 04:41 PM
QUOTE(Johanna777 @ Jun 25 2018, 10:53 PM)
8 years + relationship just gone. He fell in love with his colleague. Heart broken.
Details:
he claims that he was working OT whole weekdays and even weekends sometimes, i was not by his side when he need my support because he was stress and tired. I admit this is our problem. we were long distance love. driving distance 2 hours per round trip. so we only meet every weekends.
But he can't just go for the other girl, right? I mean not cheating on me, he should talk to me properly. I will choose to leave if he really into that girl. he shouldn't started the relationship with his colleague when he is still with me. He even msg with that girl in front of me and avoiding to let me see the hp screen saying that he was in a group chat, tell me not to suspect him.
My heart is torn when I see him msg her " I miss u, all I want is you" those geli msg while I was with him!!! wtf
I am sorry about your situation.Details:
he claims that he was working OT whole weekdays and even weekends sometimes, i was not by his side when he need my support because he was stress and tired. I admit this is our problem. we were long distance love. driving distance 2 hours per round trip. so we only meet every weekends.
But he can't just go for the other girl, right? I mean not cheating on me, he should talk to me properly. I will choose to leave if he really into that girl. he shouldn't started the relationship with his colleague when he is still with me. He even msg with that girl in front of me and avoiding to let me see the hp screen saying that he was in a group chat, tell me not to suspect him.
My heart is torn when I see him msg her " I miss u, all I want is you" those geli msg while I was with him!!! wtf
But I would like to tell you that DO NOT, DO NOT blame yourself.
You two could have discussed and communicated about it. Two is at fault whenever there's something wrong with the relationship. However, the moment he started cheating, all the blame is on him. No matter what sorry excuses he gives you later, or other forumers tell you that it's your fault, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT ANYMORE, because he made the wrong decision when he should have communicated his needs to you. He didn't, he cheated. And there's no excuse for that. He chose that route.
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