I am in 11 years relationship. (gf now wife)

1) 3rd year : love somebody else for a while
2)4th year : love another girl for a while
3) 6th year : ons with 2 different girls
4)8th year : ons with another 2? Forgot
5) recent 1-2 years, i slept with quite a lot of different girls.

Those girls know i happily married. And most of them kacau me first. Ya i am tall successful and good looking.

My wife might know too i play around, i go home with different perfume smell sometime.

She once told me referring to another couple, quarrelling and expecting we guys to be 100% loyal is stupid, wife should make sure guy feel good at home.

I am so bahagia.

***to ts, if you are in LDR because of career, obviously he is not your life #1 priority. If he is not, why should you be his #1?