People said those relationship started from university, once both graduated, will face this challenge.
As we will spend 8hours+ in workplace, few hours rest at home only, and others are for sleeping.

Just let your ex be, and you move on...
Call some school friends out for chit chatting and spend your weekend jogging or other sport.

Be strong girl! You will meet someone better!

Yes, we only meet every weekend. He said im not by his side when he needed me. So he go for his colleague. What is more ridiculous is the girl also has bf. Good luck to him.

sorry to tell you...i think u have to pay attention to this. Because i guess my bf and his colleague relationship start like this also

Can you tell me more about this? Needed you for? To talk? To hang out together? What were you doing at that time?

when bf cheat.. everyone come to pat you...

when gf cheat.. everyone say you deserve it.. deisei..

I really feel it takes 2 to clap .

Probably in the case of a 8 year relationship, its good for you to self reflect rather than just be angry.

Be happy that you dont have to spend the rest of your life with that loser . He gave up, he wnted to go fuck someone else, dont let his idiotic comments about you not being by your side affect you.

If you meant something, he would have tried to fix it. So just let it be.

However, sometimes, the woman needs to try harder as well. So some self reflection would be good. Did he seem more distant ? More stressed at work ? Did he try to talk to you but you brush him off ? Were you too comfortable and took him for-granted ?

Maybe he is just an asshole.

Who knows ? I try to eat dinner with my wife everyday, even though both of us are having our own corporate careers. If we can make time, I really wonder, why both of you didnt make time

Woman always never try to see themselves do they do the best as GF for this 8 years......

You r not beside him when he need you, mean he have keep this pain feeling inside heart for a long time already.

My guess is when he want to meet you weekday, you sure give him a lot of reason till he dont want ask you anymore. That is some of the guy....

I realize this too. Sooner or later his heart will change, even though he assures me that he wont. But who are we judge if its true or not. Can only wish for the best. But dont blame urself so much and dont hate him coz it will prolonged the sadness. Take a break from thinking what went wrong in your relationship and try to focus more on yourself.

I think Cupid corner is in another forum.

1st step: cry

2nd step: find a new hobby/travel/gym

time wont heal, but it does hurt less now tho

come cry on my shoulder

means transgender

wtf so many serious replies... is this /k? Where are all the post drillz replies?

go to pub everyday and sober until you have a new BF

Maybe because he can't stand the fact that you keep mixing up his gender?

Kek

Cupid Corner RIP.

try to be the best of yourself, guys. the better you will attract a better half or even you do not need one. you decides your life, don't let the other half drag you down.

TS didn't state what is the problem in between those years

Reminded me of my cousin. Married and already have 2 children. He said his wife keeps on controlling him until he cannot breath and he was telling his sob story to his female colleague, who is also married btw, and they ended up having an affair. Now divorce. My cousin is fucking dumb ass.

This post has been edited by erald06: Jun 26 2018, 11:00 AM