QUOTE(zasszuss @ Jun 8 2018, 04:54 AM)
😅 sorry typo error!
Well, i did try by pre emp first by buying his fav ice cream after seeing his gloomy face, then after when the ice cream finish, got into the car going to my home, the crying starts. It is disheartening and hear wrecking to drive in that condition. I broke down too and i just cant bear it. Only thing i can do is watch him cry.
But i feel guilty
basically he wants the other parent. issit the father?
Anyway, its either one, he cant choose both as u guys are separated.
so impossible to find a remedy for that (unless u guys get back together).
The only way is time.
Perhaps you need to be patient, and just let him cry.
While still doing things like bring him to the zoo or bring him see a kids movie (nowadays have kid-friendly cinemas) etc.
In the beginning he will cry, but in the end, he knows he has to suck it up.
it will take a few times, but be strong, in the end he will start to enjoy the time with you as well.