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 Parenting Advice Needed!, Separated/Divorced Parents

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quebix
post Jun 7 2018, 01:43 PM

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QUOTE(zasszuss @ Jun 7 2018, 07:07 AM)
Hello!

Need some tips here.

What do u do when your kid/s wailing out so stay with other parent when it is your turn for them to stay with you? How do u handle it? (Parents separated and lived quite a distance but same state).

Thank you for any tips given smile.gif
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what do you mean wailing out?
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post Jun 7 2018, 02:48 PM

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QUOTE(zasszuss @ Jun 7 2018, 02:41 PM)
Like crying non stop almost to full blown tantrum
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owh so its wailing out to stay with the other parent?

ur typo (so = to) confuses me.

i understand wailing.

crying in high pitched voice. die die want it. lol.

try to subdue the crying with things the kids like.

u know them. they must have a weakspot.
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post Jun 8 2018, 10:21 AM

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QUOTE(zasszuss @ Jun 8 2018, 04:54 AM)
😅 sorry typo error!

Well, i did try by pre emp first by buying his fav ice cream after seeing his gloomy face, then after when the ice cream finish, got into the car going to my home, the crying starts. It is disheartening and hear wrecking to drive in that condition. I broke down too and i just cant bear it. Only thing i can do is watch him cry.

But i feel guilty
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basically he wants the other parent. issit the father?
Anyway, its either one, he cant choose both as u guys are separated.

so impossible to find a remedy for that (unless u guys get back together).

The only way is time.
Perhaps you need to be patient, and just let him cry.
While still doing things like bring him to the zoo or bring him see a kids movie (nowadays have kid-friendly cinemas) etc.

In the beginning he will cry, but in the end, he knows he has to suck it up.
it will take a few times, but be strong, in the end he will start to enjoy the time with you as well.
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