Happiness is not something we can pursue in life, but we can find happiness in pursuing a meaningful life.

Meaning is personal, it's phenomenological. No one else can define the meaning for our life, but ourselves. So one have to take up the responsibility to figure out, what is the meaning of life for himself or herself.

Sometimes we may feel lost and not sure how to figure it out by ourselves, we can't seems to breakthrough our usual routine and see thing from different perspective, that is why we can talk to a good counselor who are trained to do this job.

Talking to a counselor is for our own development.