Hi guys,I am 28 this year,I am a male.I have history of mental health problem,but now I have overcome it and not looking back at all.Anyway,I was relationship/sexualess counting from 19 where I first got depress,until almost 28 years old where I first have sex.It was with my ex-gf.

I was thinking about visiting a prostitute after 3 month after She broke up with me,now it’s one and half month we broke up.Will it be a stupid choice to just curb my sexually needs and be impatient to wait for next relationship.I have asked my psychiatrist,he told me it won’t do anything bad to me emotionally/mentally,he says just worry about catching STD.

if u r good looking, try go hunting in tinder for girls who are open to ONS

if really desperate, visit pros once in a while but remember to use dom dom

Use your hand, save a lot of money and time.

Find some hobby dude. I've been in a husband and wife relationship without sex for 16 months due to some reason

I used to be very active. minimum 3 times a week.

the whole reason condom was created so men can have as much sex as they want without getting any STDs. use them at all time.

I am sorry to hear that.I am frustrated myself also

Yea,I know.I was just thinking if I should hold on until it’s time then really just go for it.I scare regret visit prostitute.My two siblings never visit prostitute

inner faith ? finding your true soul? nature ways?

Don't go prostitute la. go healthy massage better. go jacuzzi, steam, and then massage happy ending

16 months quite a long time, wouldn't affect your relationship?

Affect a lot, but you can read in my thread here as well: https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/4577365

Massage happy ending,and prostitution really not much different?

Different for my point of view, at least you did not engage sexual intercourse by having your didi inside someone else vagina.
No risk for STD.
and prostrate massage also actually is good for health.

its all in your mind.
probably you are thinking back hard when you are with your ex. its better to let go that part of memory. get some hobby or things to occupy your time.
when you really meet someone special and loves you, then by all means, go for it.

if so much worry about pros, why not find those OKT with freelancers on hand or just create a secondary account on Insta then ask around for ST?

This. Or even better: just use Bumble. It is the new Tinder for people who are really serious about hooking up, so success rates are higher on average. I also found it quite comfortable to use. Tinder was a pain in the ass sometimes. Just check the Bumble App Review for more information but i suggest you check it out, as this is a good chance to put an end to your sexual frustration issues
I had great success and in real life im not really the guy to approach persons to hook up with them.



This post has been edited by MasterP: Sep 24 2018, 04:51 AM

Bro, if it makes you feel better 2nd option is normal. Thousands visit prostitute everyday... But please.... Please make sure you wear condom even if its a bjob.

why visit prostitute?

to me 28yo is a golden period... lol

and I dont understand why are you being impatient and hunger for sex?

I think you can go for more exercise, and workout? I believe it will make you more good looking and change your life.

A healthy lifestyle and positive mindset can really change you to become a better person. =)

You dont need to find prostitute, honestly.

Condom does not prevent other STI like scabies, herpes, pubic lice etc. Please think over how many men and what backgrounds of men these prostitutes had served. You are exposing yourself to infections.

Just gym and get a sexy bod then go chick hunting

despite they claim not looking for hookups, trust me there's plenty of thirsty chicks on Tinder.

However if you're not attractive enough, tough luck. At the very least you can try and hit the gym and hopefully improve your appearance. pays off much better in the long run than paying few hundreds bucks for few hours with prostitutes.

nice advised yup find a good hobby, eventually, you will forget about other.....

well my suggestion goes to sports or adventure like hiking , join more activities like Buddhist or meditation. Some time if you stress or always alone will easily get depress

Look you must be positive thinking, you are not alone...befrienders