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Advice Wanted Suggestions for lunch date in KL? First date.

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siew14
post May 5 2018, 12:59 PM

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Don't plan so hard for first date.

It doesn't have to be a whole day thing or whatsoever.

The purpose of first date especially the gal is from social app, is get to see whether both of you are compatible not behind the phone. And also to verify the person, as in how different that the person look compared to the profile picture.

So, a simple coffee date is fine also actually.. last time I did lunch/dinner plus movie also no issue also ie got second date lah.. but that's really depends on the first date whether got alot of moment of silence or not... So long you can keep the conversation going, a short meet up is good enough.

And even you have seen her before by having video call prior to the date, do some activity instead of having meal lah. This approach is to spend time together only.. lol
BigHamsapWolf
post May 5 2018, 04:32 PM

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I am not sure till which level, on the conversation between two of you in Tinder.
Nevertheless, it is good to set proper expectation to both parties on knowing the existence of chemistry between two of you.

In my case, I met my wife in a cafe located in a mall after office hour.
We had a chat for few hours, and ended with a pleasant impression between us.

As for you, you may want to plan to have 2 to 3 stops of activities in your first date, such as meal > activity > cafe.

Good luck my friend !

 

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