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post Apr 24 2018, 04:38 PM, updated 6y ago

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First thing first, no names calling, no pulling religion into this, no insults.

Very honest question : Any of the parents here wanted to choose their babies' gender?
Anyone done it? Is it even available in Malaysia?

Everyone know how costly it is to raise a child in Malaysia right now, and me and my husband has always always wanted a son and a daughter,
it'a like the unspoken dream, and I know it could or could not be banned in Malaysia.

So I would like some advice or comments.

PS : Once again, no names calling or insulting please. Constructive comments and advices. TQ!
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post Apr 24 2018, 04:44 PM

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If you get 2 daughters instead.

Will you love them any less?
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post Apr 24 2018, 04:48 PM

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QUOTE(MeToo @ Apr 24 2018, 04:44 PM)
If you get 2 daughters instead.

Will you love them any less?
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No, definitely will still love them, but of course, its something like if you could get one son and one daughter, why not.
Of course, if finances allows, I wouldn't even mind getting 3 sons and 1 daughter, or 3 daughters and 1 son.

It's more of wanting to have one of each gender at least.
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post Apr 24 2018, 05:15 PM

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QUOTE(catscatscats93 @ Apr 24 2018, 04:48 PM)
No, definitely will still love them, but of course, its something like if you could get one son and one daughter, why not.
Of course, if finances allows, I wouldn't even mind getting 3 sons and 1 daughter, or 3 daughters and 1 son.

It's more of wanting to have one of each gender at least.
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In a perfect world 1 boy 1 girl sure nice.

But regardless, I'm not particular, as long as they are healthy.

As for budget, ya thats a killer, education 20 yrs down the road will be easily 1M EACH ....
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post Apr 24 2018, 05:30 PM

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some said eating can contribute to gender , but that depend on the higher power
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post Apr 24 2018, 05:35 PM

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first Q, yes it is nice to get baby girl for me or us and thanks God, we able to get baby girl but anyway for me personally Im ok just pray to God the baby is healthy and in good condition.

personally Im not going to do gender choice like those in lab just for that thing even if we are rich. We did some myth things and could say it is working for us haha maybe just pure luck or that our destiny as parent.

second Q, it depend on your expectation as parent and your life style. Just live and parenting within your economy and each year try to improve the economy. Best plan keep a saving before pregnant and all the way till end. yes we do wish to give the best of the best environment and education to our kid but reality yes it is hard we just try our best and hope a best of luck for our family.

im a young parent and still learning, and not even rich or high level position. just remember not all expensive thing or education is good for she/he, and not all good education or things will come with expensive value. example you brought iPad for your kid, the main purpose for her/his education but end up did we really use for education or just to keep them "busy" not disturbing us or end up wrongly use by them like watching cartoon or social media.
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post Apr 24 2018, 06:08 PM

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QUOTE(MeToo @ Apr 24 2018, 05:15 PM)
In a perfect world 1 boy 1 girl sure nice.

But regardless, I'm not particular, as long as they are healthy.

As for budget, ya thats a killer, education 20 yrs down the road will be easily 1M EACH ....
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ya.... now its already close to 40k just for Degree bangwall.gif
and that is for TARUC and is PR course only,
if Medicine in private etc, huge amount aih
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post Apr 24 2018, 06:09 PM

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QUOTE(kausar @ Apr 24 2018, 05:30 PM)
some said eating can contribute to gender , but that depend on the higher power
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Yaa, some people say father's body
alkaline = girl, acidic = boys.

and a lot of counting the full moon things going around too.

Was wondering if Malaysia has anything like picking the X or Y chromosomes of sperm kind of thing.... hmm.gif
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post Apr 24 2018, 06:11 PM

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QUOTE(fhatz @ Apr 24 2018, 05:35 PM)
first Q, yes it is nice to get baby girl for me or us and thanks God, we able to get baby girl but anyway for me personally Im ok just pray to God the baby is healthy and in good condition.

personally Im not going to do gender choice like those in lab just for that thing even if we are rich. We did some myth things and could say it is working for us haha maybe just pure luck or that our destiny as parent.

second Q, it depend on your expectation as parent and your life style. Just live and parenting within your economy and each year try to improve the economy. Best plan keep a saving before pregnant and all the way till end. yes we do wish to give the best of the best environment and education to our kid but reality yes it is hard we just try our best and hope a best of luck for our family.

im a young parent and still learning, and not even rich or high level position. just remember not all expensive thing or education is good for she/he, and not all good education or things will come with expensive value. example you brought iPad for your kid, the main purpose for her/his education but end up did we really use for education or just to keep them "busy" not disturbing us or end up wrongly use by them like watching cartoon or social media.
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Ya, already looking into investment linked insurance, Malaysia also not safe this days, touch wood, who knows if anything happens to me or my husband in the future, at least our children have a bit of financial netting.
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post Apr 24 2018, 07:05 PM

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My 2 cents from my experience (ha)....

After 2 boys, wanted a girl. Learnt this tip from a book. Forgot the book title now. Just go to Amazon and search for baby sex etc, you will get it.

The theory is (my memory may fail me here)

* X sperms (girl) are slow marathon swimmers
* Y sperms (boy) are fast low stamina swimmers

Their target is to meet the egg.

So to increase the chance of X sperms meeting the egg, time the bed game x days before the start of ovulation (I think x = 3-4 days). The y sperms may be faster swimmers but the egg will be too far up for them to reach it as they have low stamina. The x sperms are slower but after a few days, they will meet the egg which is on the way down the tube.

Get it? Ha. I hope no medical student or doctor is reading this. Ha.

All the best with your girl!

P/S Yes, my 3rd child is a girl.





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post Apr 24 2018, 09:21 PM

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Agreed with the above:-
a) boy - must do it during ovulation
b) girl - must do it few days before ovulation

This post has been edited by gogo2: Apr 25 2018, 10:08 AM
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post Apr 25 2018, 08:47 AM

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QUOTE(plumberly @ Apr 24 2018, 07:05 PM)
My 2 cents from my experience (ha)....

After 2 boys, wanted a girl. Learnt this tip from a book. Forgot the book title now. Just go to Amazon and search for baby sex etc, you will get it.

The theory is (my memory may fail me here)

* X sperms (girl) are slow marathon swimmers
* Y sperms (boy) are fast low stamina swimmers

Their target is to meet the egg.

So to increase the chance of X sperms meeting the egg, time the bed game x days before the start of ovulation (I think x = 3-4 days). The y sperms may be faster swimmers but the egg will be too far up for them to reach it as they have low stamina. The x sperms are slower but  after a few days, they will meet the egg which is on the way down the tube.

Get it? Ha. I hope no medical student or doctor is reading this. Ha.

All the best with your girl!

P/S  Yes, my 3rd child is a girl.
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Congrats on your baby girl haha, i supposed it worked! I also read about alkaline and acidic body effects.
This will be good to add in too thumbup.gif
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post Apr 25 2018, 08:48 AM

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QUOTE(gogo2 @ Apr 24 2018, 09:21 PM)
Agreed with the above:-
a) boy - must do it during ovulation
b) girl - must do it few days after ovulation
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I think you meant girl before ovulation tongue.gif tongue.gif
But thank you haha icon_idea.gif
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QUOTE(catscatscats93 @ Apr 25 2018, 08:48 AM)
I think you meant girl before ovulation  tongue.gif  tongue.gif
But thank you haha  icon_idea.gif
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post Apr 25 2018, 12:56 PM

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im not sure about the ovulation thingy.

the one that determines if its boy or girl, is always the man.
what i mean is, for girl its the XX chromosome.
for boy its the XY choromosome.

for mother which is XX pair, will separate into X and X.
for father which is XY pair, will separate into X and Y.

So mother's egg (ovum) is always X.
Its the father's sperm that determines the sex. if the sperm that penetrate the ovum carries X, then mother X plus father X become XX again, get girl la.
But if the sperm that penetrate the ovum carries the Y, then it becomes the XY.
XY is boy.

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so, alkaline or acid, or ovulation timing etc, dont think it is that relevant to get what gender of baby.

just my opinion.
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post Apr 26 2018, 03:02 PM

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QUOTE(quebix @ Apr 25 2018, 12:56 PM)

im not sure about the ovulation thingy.

the one that determines if its boy or girl, is always the man.
what i mean is, for girl its the XX chromosome.
for boy its the XY choromosome.

for mother which is XX pair, will separate into X and X.
for father which is XY pair, will separate into X and Y.

So mother's egg (ovum) is always X.
Its the father's sperm that determines the sex.  if the sperm that penetrate the ovum carries X, then mother X plus father X become XX again, get girl la.
But if the sperm that penetrate the ovum carries the Y, then it becomes the XY.
XY is boy.

https://digital.wwnorton.com/ebooks/epub/bi...es/Pg_114-2.jpg 

so, alkaline or acid, or ovulation timing etc, dont think it is that relevant to get what gender of baby.

just my opinion.
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Apparently the X chromosome sperms survive better in an alkaline environment, and Y sperms in Acidic haha,
dont know whether is myth or anyone actually tried before~
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QUOTE(catscatscats93 @ Apr 26 2018, 03:02 PM)
Apparently the X chromosome sperms survive better in an alkaline environment, and Y sperms in Acidic haha,
dont know whether is myth or anyone actually tried before~
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this is just a theory.

the thing is, this theory proves to be correct on a high percentage. around 50%. thats a high number. So many people say, "owh, i eat alkaline foods and get baby boy."
from 100 person, 50 person say they get boy from eating alkaline foods.
50 people is a lot of people. they start telling other people "if u want to get a boy, u should eat alkaline foods etc" news spread.
the cycle goes.

but this theory is also wrong on a high percentage, 50% as well.

just like the gender distribution of births, around 50% male, around 50% female.



just like the theory if the pregnant perut is bulat its a girl and if its sharp is a boy....
this theory can be correct 50% of the time.

come on, if its not a boy, it must be a girl. it is 50-50 la. aiyo.




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QUOTE(quebix @ Apr 26 2018, 03:29 PM)
this is just a theory.

the thing is, this theory proves to be correct on a high percentage. around 50%. thats a high number. So many people say, "owh, i eat alkaline foods and get baby boy."
from 100 person, 50 person say they get boy from eating alkaline foods.
50 people is a lot of people. they start telling other people "if u want to get a boy, u should eat alkaline foods etc" news spread.
the cycle goes.

but this theory is also wrong on a high percentage, 50% as well.

just like the gender distribution of births, around 50% male, around 50% female.
just like the theory if the pregnant perut is bulat its a girl and if its sharp is a boy....
this theory can be correct 50% of the time.

come on, if its not a boy, it must be a girl. it is 50-50 la. aiyo.
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True also hahaha, only 2 genders available, its either one isnt it lol.gif

Was wondering if Malaysia has any medical methods of like choosing gender la, like Sperm Sorting With Insemination,
thinking if anyone on this thread actually tried and suceeded
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QUOTE(catscatscats93 @ Apr 26 2018, 04:46 PM)
True also hahaha, only 2 genders available, its either one isnt it  lol.gif

Was wondering if Malaysia has any medical methods of like choosing gender la, like Sperm Sorting With Insemination,
thinking if anyone on this thread actually tried and suceeded
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i read somewhere for IVF, can choose gender.

Many China nationals come to Malaysia to do it because over there its not allowed to choose the gender.

is this true?
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post May 25 2018, 12:13 PM

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I know a lot of Asian countries dont allow gender choosing though, not sure if Malaysia one of them, but, IVF is a massive pain and terrible process, usually done by couples who have bad fertility rate, thus i was thinking if anything like sperm sorting tongue.gif

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