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siew14
post Apr 25 2018, 09:21 PM

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QUOTE(Mirage64 @ Apr 24 2018, 10:12 PM)
Yup, I'm doing that right now. Texting her, and stuff..
But unfortunately for me, she doesn't keen to text me, or even reply back my text.

So.... I'm kinda stuck here. Haha
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i think quite likely she not interested. dont force it otherwise, she will avoid you and you will lose a friend.


TSMirage64
post Apr 25 2018, 09:34 PM

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QUOTE(salacious fictitious @ Apr 25 2018, 09:15 PM)
Hello there ts, i can give you some of hint when im giving one at potential mate.
Shy
Joke/laugh alot even if its awkward
will text you before bedtime
so on.
If you like a girl make her love you first before someone snatched her right infront of your eyes.
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And how I can make her love me first? And thanks for the tips.
QUOTE(siew14 @ Apr 25 2018, 09:21 PM)
i think quite likely she not interested. dont force it otherwise, she will avoid you and you will lose a friend.
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Yup, it's obvious that she's not into me. Oh well...
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post Apr 25 2018, 09:50 PM

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QUOTE(Mirage64 @ Apr 25 2018, 09:34 PM)
And how I can make her love me first? And thanks for the tips.

Yup, it's obvious that she's not into me. Oh well...
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you can try by being funny as example. Buy her dinner, go watch Rom-Com at cinema.
Try switching personality each day meet her. If she likes one of the personality stay with it. If not better switch. As long as we dont find you out. You should be okey.
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post Apr 25 2018, 10:03 PM

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QUOTE(salacious fictitious @ Apr 25 2018, 09:50 PM)
you can try by being funny as example. Buy her dinner, go watch Rom-Com at cinema.
Try switching personality each day meet her. If she likes one of the personality stay with it. If not better switch. As long as we dont find you out. You should be okey.
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I do wanna do that. Do stuffs together. Heck, even go hiking together is okay with me. But the prob is, i can't managed to get a girl to like me.

I know I'm not that smart, rich, etc...
But right now, i want to change myself. I don't want to waste my time being alone and miserable. 25 yo but still studying for degree. I do wish that i could play sports with her. Anything, to make me feel happy again. I know I'm being clingy, but I'm being honest.
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post Apr 26 2018, 10:25 AM

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QUOTE(Mirage64 @ Apr 25 2018, 10:03 PM)
I do wanna do that. Do stuffs together. Heck, even go hiking together is okay with me. But the prob is, i can't managed to get a girl to like me.

I know I'm not that smart, rich, etc...
But right now, i want to change myself. I don't want to waste my time being alone and miserable. 25 yo but still studying for degree. I do wish that i could play sports with her. Anything, to make me feel happy again. I know I'm being clingy, but I'm being honest.
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Just be yourself, changing for the better is good but stay true to yourself.

If she likes you the way you are then she is the one, if not how many times are you going to change your personality, if even if you manage to pull it off, how long can you sustain? If want to act someone else to entertain a girl, why not go be an actor instead? Ain't nobody got time to act a f**king drama yo! You don't beg ppl to stay to your life, it won't last.

Do not be afraid to rock the boat. If someone falls out, they were not meant to be in your boat.
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post Apr 26 2018, 11:14 AM

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QUOTE(cfa28 @ Apr 24 2018, 05:25 PM)
Hi Bro,  I think generally, if a girl takes a long time to respond to your messages / e-mails, etc it means one of few things

a)      She is very busy with her work and overlooked to reply to you.

b)      She is not really interested and is merely being polite in entertaining you when you call her or catch her at the right time.

How to tell the difference between the 2 is this.. if you are always the one doing the calling / initiating (say more than 75%), then it’s the later (b) that she is not really interested in being more than friends and you should move on.

At your age, time is a precious commodity that should not be wasted on futile projects.  In a way, it is better than leading you on and using you as a doormat or ATM.

Good ways to meet chicks (which I have used before).

a)      Ask friends to introduce – this way you know that she is single and available if you can click it off

b)      Join social events that interest you – you can meet like-minded people and have better instant chemistry

c)      Join dating events / speed date / lunch actually – you meet women who generally want to date guys  in your profile group

Generally, I would say that you should approach woman with the intention of just to know them and be friends.  After a few outings or events (I don’t like to use the word dates), you would know if there is any chemistry to take it to the next step.

Portray confidence when meeting women in your speech and actions and don’t come off as desperate.  If you sense that the woman is not interested, just cool off for a while and move on.  Who knows, she may call you back and you can restart the process.

Wish you luck in advance.
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If you sense that the woman is not interested, just cool off for a while and move on. Who knows, she may call you back and you can restart the process.


>> this is great
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post Apr 26 2018, 12:25 PM

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QUOTE(alkw89 @ Apr 26 2018, 10:25 AM)
Just be yourself, changing for the better is good but stay true to yourself.

If she likes you the way you are then she is the one, if not how many times are you going to change your personality, if even if you manage to pull it off, how long can you sustain? If want to act someone else to entertain a girl, why not go be an actor instead? Ain't nobody got time to act a f**king drama yo! You don't beg ppl to stay to your life, it won't last.

Do not be afraid to rock the boat. If someone falls out, they were not meant to be in your boat.
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Yup. You're right. I am who i am.
It just that I've been single for many years. Sometimes you do feel lonely, you know? Haha
Just wanna meet someone new. Maybe it can lead to many, new experience for me.
Thanks anon

QUOTE(ControlTesti @ Apr 26 2018, 12:17 PM)
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This post has been edited by sweet_pez: Apr 26 2018, 02:34 PM
NanaK
post Apr 30 2018, 05:00 PM

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if a girl like you she will like to talk with you, looking at you, go out with you

else no, wrong signal
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post Apr 30 2018, 08:46 PM

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QUOTE(NanaK @ Apr 30 2018, 05:00 PM)
if a girl like you she will like to talk with you, looking at you, go out with you

else no, wrong signal
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what if the girl just need a friend?
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post Apr 30 2018, 10:27 PM

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QUOTE(vondeland @ Apr 30 2018, 08:46 PM)
what if the girl just need a friend?
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she will hint you to be just friend.

she will not feeling ease when you privately ask her out, either ask you who is coming together or directly bring her friend to join / asking you can her friend join as well.

She like you you can see from her eyes, and smile.

looks interested in every topic you say, want to know more and asking, do notice when you coming or leaving etc.

too much hints so guys please be alert a bit, girls usually don't speak out but hint2

This post has been edited by NanaK: Apr 30 2018, 10:36 PM
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post May 1 2018, 06:01 AM

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QUOTE(NanaK @ Apr 30 2018, 10:27 PM)
she will hint you to be just friend.

she will not feeling ease when you privately ask her out, either ask you who is coming together or directly bring her friend to join / asking you can her friend join as well.

She like you you can see from her eyes, and smile.

looks interested in every topic you say, want to know more and asking, do notice when you coming or leaving etc.

too much hints so guys please be alert a bit, girls usually don't speak out but hint2
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This. When go out for a casual date in cafe, her focus only on you. Even if someone else passed by, she still focus on you.

Can stare straight into her eyes, then you will be able to tell.

Then to be more confirm, date her out again and she agreed, very high chance you strike lottery already.

TS all the best.

This post has been edited by MasBoleh!: May 1 2018, 06:02 AM
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post May 2 2018, 06:45 PM

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Once i dated a girl out.

She was playing the phone all the time.

And that is the last time i ask her out. Obviously no interested in me.

Keep your choices open. That is the advise from me.

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